question about sex....could be tmi...

firsttimemama

Okay so since being pregnant sex has been extremely painful and I never want it. I still try every so often (not that often really) but anyways last time little baby Caleb moved and kicked the entire time making it even worse. Not only painful but I was distracted the whole time. Is there anything that works for you ladies when your baby is moving and you're trying to be sexy with your man?

westnbaby

my wife and i are 17 weeks and she doesn't want it at all

PrayingForMiracles

I can't due to placenta previa... I'm sorry honey! I can't be of help...

KalikoJenie

I don't really want it either. I only give it up on days I don't feel so crappy, but that leaves my man getting it between once a week to once a month... thankfully for him I take care of him other ways

Karla_with_a_K

I dont want it either. But so far when we do my lil man dont move around or I dont notice anyway

mrs_wainright

I'm sorry girl! I went through that phase Ans hubby didn't get it!!
when she moves he thinks its so sexy that I'm carrying his baby that it doesn't bug me(;

mscheyla

I don't care for it either ever since my belly started popping out. I feel like I can't breath on my back, doggy style I get motion sickness and on top I feel fat since my belly touches him. Which also adds thinking of munchkin while having sex, which no one wants to think of that. It's hard, and with other favors for my hubby I can't get past the thought, what I eat baby eats...so I don't do that either..your baby may get where he falls asleep the rocking is suppose to do that.

_Kaykes

I dont want it either! Plus its painful now

cosenswife

I use a water based lube when needed and if it hurts I use a vibrator for some extra feel good and it distracts me from the little bit of pain.

dadof2n1togo

My wife hasn't wanted me anywhere near her since the test was positive. We went from every day when ttc to nothing at all. She is 14 weeks or so today but oh well was same with the other 2 also, so dont expect any for a long time yet. Then I will most likrly be getting the snip so still none then lol.

MyLittleBlessing

Try sitting in a chair with him holding legs? I heard it is supposed to be less painful and easier on the baby. I haven't tried it though.

FirstTimeDaddy

by sea monkey moves around during sex. but it usually makes her go to sleep. u try not to think abut her moving while we have sex n my gf sopes too cuz its not really a problem for us.

kay_la_la

I actually found sex really enjoyable up until just recently.. and thata cuz im 33 weeks and i get out of breath lmao but i really like it from the side? 'Spooning' is hat ive seen it called. It still allows you to feel intimate and close and the guy enjoys it too:)

keeleab

There's not much u can do it sucks Ik I have horrible pains myself, but just let him know that it hurts then try sometime when its not bothering u as much sex has been difficult but today it was amazing but hurt afterwards, u will go threw these stages where u don't/can't have sex its normal unfortunately it sucks can't do nothing bout it try 2 get in the mood when your not in pain. Good luck sorry your going threw this im in the same boat pain is 2 horrible

firsttimemama

Thanks for the advice everyone!