is it possible

tinker

So I'm off again with my bd.. he just always hass to fk up. I always catch him talking to girls. N he's as if nothing like its okay.. I been threw so much with him 2 yrs.. had a mc n 7 months later pregnant again it was planned n I'm so happy. But things we're supposed to b different we we're supposed to b together... threw this whole pregnacey he hasn't been here for me or done shit. But cause me stress. He just cares bout himself.. ugh. I'm so hurt. But I'm so done I'm not gna go another 2 yrs having to put up with his bs.. I tried but its all him!! U think hell change wen the baby gets here? I get that asked all the time n honestly idk.. I'm 22 weeks.. n it scares me to think ima b doing this alone .. I kno my moms ther for me she's been here the whole time. But that's a different kind of support if u get me.. I'm just fed up with it all I deserve a whole lot better

tinker

Sry its so long

Jess8D7

You can do better. He didn't learn the first time... can't teach an old dog new tricks.. plus! You have ur mither's love n support

Jess8D7

Mother's***

dadof2n1togo

it could just be that he is scared cos of last time. Maybe when the time comes he will man up maybe he won't who knows. Sorry it doesnt help but I know I went through this when my wife was preg with our second. I felt abandoned by her. We are now on our 3rd and I have been really distant with her because of stress and her hormones lol.
All the best though.

tinker

Thanx that's so true

tinker

I give him attention I showed him how much I loved him.. he ignores me constantly dnt answer my kalls or txt n the lies with his excuses.. he dnt show me any love or attention.. instead he's out showing other girls. I'm pregnant with his child n I'm the last person he even thinks bout.. promises things well change been hearing that the last 2 yrs.. I really need his support but I dnt. Have it

keeleab

Don't give up men go threw there share of shit during pregnancy also they have all different types of emotions& sometimes a different thought process so don't worry 2 Much , its possible that he could change and leave all that behind& he probably will have faith stay strong. Do u got the what 2 expect when your expecting app? If not get it if u do it has the stuff men go threw and what they think about, but him& other girls isn't expectable don't put ups with that let him know how u feel if he cares he will stop just make sure he understands how u feel. Good luck

tinker

It sux n its lonly.. and he wuld always ask for sex.. n then out of no we're he dnt even want it even wen I do he trys making up excuses.. as if he's getting it some where else..

tinker

Ive told him how I felt about him talking to girls... but no he blocks me out he ignores ny txt n kalls haven't seen him or nothing going on 2 weeks.. I feel like this is the end. I just needa let him go n move on. If he dny care why shuld I keep trying he dnt put his part.. I changed all my ways for him. But he kant do the same for me.. its like them girls r more important then trying to keep our lil family together

dadof2n1togo

It sounds like he is scared and playing out. It seems to me like he feels like he has lost control of his life and is trying to get back that feeling. If all he is doing is talking to these other girls then while it hurts there isn't much you c can do. If toy try to prevent it he will just push further away.
To me it really does sound like he is scared of the change. Give him a bit of time and ask him to call you when he is ready to talk about it all. We men are very stubborn when we are told not to do something or changes are out of our control.

tinker

I'm 20 yrs old n he's 24 yrs old.. shuldnt. He be done with all that already.... I just dnt kno wat to do anymore.. I really need him right now. But right now feels like he dnt want nothing to do with me.. haven't seen or talkd to him ' cuz he ignores me the whole time. Its not right for him to talk to other girl cuz I kno the way he is n most of them r his ex...

jessm22

Men don't change I thought my hubby would stop drinking so much and goin out all the time once my daughter got here but he never did and I'm pregnant again I deal with it cause I love him and I know he's not out with girls but I wish some days he would stay home with me but if your man is out with other girls you may as well say goodbye

FiirstTiimeMommy2b

I know exactly how you feel:( it sucks but all I can say is men sometimes change and sometimes dont they think they know everything and are dummer than a rock my bd is the same except mine is leaving 3hrs away and im a full time student full time employee and full time involved. I dont want to drop out but my parents live an hr away and I have no support whats so ever with my baby girl I know what you feel and all I can say is take.it.day by day live your life and think.about your baby he will reLize his mistake.sooner or later lets hope sooner than later and when he does he'll have to pray your still there:).

tinker

It sux n hurts so much.. idk why he does this to me I've been nothing but good to him...

keeleab

Maybe& hopefully he will realize what he's doing if not try and stay strong Ik its harder said then done