:'( :'( :'( cant stop crying

edited May 2011 in Pregnant
So I'm really upset and I just don't know what to say. My stepsister was one month behind me (she was 7 months pregnant) and she went in for an ultrasound and they discovered something was wrong with the baby. Her fluid was low and they couldn't see one of the babys kidneys. Well there was a mass growing inside of baby putting pressure on everything and they needed to do an emergency csection. Well they tried everything but the baby didn't make it :'( they couldn't get him to take a breath. Now I have never been that close to my step sis because she is older than me and we were never around each other but ofcourse I feel absolutelty horrible. I can't even believe this happened. But my dad is making it so hard. I'm his only child and he's been worried the whole time but now he keeps making comments to me " see I told you anything can happen" and "this is why I worry about you because she is only a month behind you and look what happened" I know he is upset too and I understand but I already feel soo bad but he is making me feel like something bad is going to happen to my baby (I'm almost 35 weeks). I can't stop crying.

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  • @mama0811 Thank you. I'm trying not to stress and I know its selfish and I wasn't even thinking about myself I was just hurting for my step sis but my dad just won't stop saying things about my baby and he thinks something bad will happen.
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  • @mama0811. Thanks. I am trying
  • Wow, thats so sad. They didn't detect anything during her anatomy scan?
  • @ExcitedForOctober. Nope :( she just went in for a regular appt. last week and they did an ultrasound and everything has went horribly wrong since then. At first they noticed her amniotic fluid was low. Then they noticed a mass on one of the kidneys and they couldn't see the other. They put her in the hospital and did another ultrasound and saw the mass was growing putting pressure on the lungs and heart so they decided they needed to do an emercency csection. They gave her steriod shots before to try to develop the lungs but after the csection they couldn't get him to take a breath :'(
  • @marinewife Thats so scary and sad, I know how hard it can be but PLEASE try to stay calm for the sake of your baby.
  • I am so sorry!
  • I'm so sorry this happened to her I'm sure you will be fine just try to relax and focus on what is going on with your pregnancy please don't stress too much
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