Do you blame me?

edited May 2011 in Third Trimester
Ok I got 8 days until my due date...its Friday night, so of course my boyfriend wants to do something since he works all week and rarely gets a Saturday off, which he does tomorrow, and I'm fine with that...earlier we went to the bar because one of his old friends was there so we stayed for an hour or so and his friend asked if we wanted to go bowling when his girlfriend got off work at 11 at night? My boyfriend puts me on the spot "you want to go babe?" So I said sure but really I knew once his friend was not around I would tell him no way in hell am I getting my big fat tired pregnant ass up to go bowling! So I told him like five times I didn't want to go...its just too late at night I'm tired...ten minutes ago he goes "get up and get ready we are going to go to the bar until dudes girlfriend gets off work" um no not going to happen, then he gets pissed because I said no and gets up and starts walking to the bar which is a mile away (he has no license) but really do you blame me? I know I don't work but I'm damn near ready to pop does he really expect me to stay out until 2 am bowling?? Someone please tell me I'm not being "unreasonable"

Comments

  • I don't blame you, he needs to be more understanding
  • I can't say I wouldn't do the same thing
  • Oh definitely not wrong at all. U could go in to.labor at any moment. The last month of pregnancy is so uncomfortable and ur always exhausted. And to pic up a bowling ball would just hurt u more that u already do. I would give him his night out and explain why u don't wanna go! Then just put ur feet up and relax!!
  • Ur in ur final trimester! Ur ok to be tired.. I think ur fine & he shouldn't be mad.. shouldn't of gottn ignorant at all.. and its his friends,.. he shoulda delt w it & knw ur pregnant! U need sum rest! I dnt blame u.. dnt feel obligated to do sumthin u dnt want. Ask if he's effin pregnant & knws wit it feels like thn tell him to kiss the fattest part of ur ass lmao.. geesh.. but yah I dnt blame u.
  • No, I don't blame you. And I would be pretty pissed to be put on the spot like that, too.
    Get some rest! :)
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