Mini vent...sorry

3rdandlast4me

I'm at a snapping point... I'm 31 pregnant with my 3rd. I have two boys ages 13 & baby boy be 8yr in july. Alot of people is constantly saying i'm stupid for having another baby at my age. I didn't know its was an age limit on having kids. In my eyes I thought I did pretty good with putting space between the births. If i'm not mistaken i'm the one that have to take care of the baby. People really know how to hurt a person with words. Sorry bout this post, i'm just so hurt right now.

Janet_2011

Theres no real age limit, but after a certain age getting pregnant can be bad for most women since the birth can have many complications and so can the baby.

mschop

They just need to mind there own business. Yes there is a point of where there is a to old but that's like 60.

marriedwith_4

31 is a good age to have kids. Ur not to old at all ur actually still pretty young.

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mschop

@tricesbaby I'm 26 and will be almost 27 by the time baby gets here, and I want two more after this one

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I think your still pretty young! Maybe they are referring to the fact that your oldest is so close to being 18 why would u want to start all over again but shoot that's your decision not theirs!

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mrs_shu

Wow I must be a complete moron since I'm 34 and this is my third (13yr & 3yr)

Fuck'em!

blissmarie23

I have a great friend (who's a great mother) and she didn start having kids until she was in her 40's. She would have another at 45 if her husband hadn't gotten fixed. I think too many people have too many opinions about how many kids/when other people should have children! >:p to them

3rdandlast4me

my family keep telling me I don't need friends like them. My 13yr son said ohhh they just jealous cause i'm doing a good job. My 8yr son said they just talk to hear theirself talk. So as of this point I no longer have friends because i'm having another child. Ohhh well long as I have my husband, children, family, and pregly I feel thats more than enough support for me.

juliek77

Tell them to shut their pie hole! Seriously, WTF is wrong with people? Mind your own damn business. If a person isn't asking you for your opinion on their age and when they are having children, SHUT IT! I am mad for you. I am 33 (34 in December) and I am pregnant with my 3rd. Didn't these peoples mothers ever teach them if they didn't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all? Geesh!!!!

TishJ330

Well tell your friends to look at me, point and stare LOL! I'm 35 and I'm having my 2nd. My first is 16, and I'm due on her 17th birthday! So if they really want to have something to talk about, point them in my direction