in need of a friend

happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
edited May 2011 in Pregnant
I just feel so lonely.. before I got pregnant I had so many friends & now I have none.. nobody calls.. no one invites u anywhere.. its horrible.. I don't even have anyone to share secrets with.. I knw maybe it sounds dumb but I'm 19 I like to go shopping & just be with friends.. my husband works 12 hrs a day so I'm always alone.. its so depressing.. :(
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  • jeweljewel
    Ill be your friend >:D<
  • MybabeMybabe
    Where are you from??.
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe

    @jewel Aww ur so sweet :')

    @nova that's sucks :/ my friends live down the block.. but I guess they don't like me anymore lol

    @mybabe el paso tx

  • momof2andwantinga3rdmomof2andwantinga3rd
    Im here if you want to talk. With my first I had just turned 19 when I had him. I have only one true good friend from school now and we don't even talk that much. I stay home with the kids.
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe

    @nova Aww :)

    @mommyof2andwantinga3rd thankk u :) Idk what wrong I've just been depressed.. I was thinking of going to a baby store but its pointless cuz Idk what I'm having so I can't even shop :/
  • jeweljewel
    @happiestmommietobe you can still buy baby items get some cute bibs and you can get some clothes just stick to neutral clothes (ducks works for both boy and girl)
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    @jewel Aaa that's so cool! I hadn't thought of it lol maybe shopping will distract me & ill feel better :)
  • jeweljewel
    @happiestmommietobe shopping always makes me feel better too :) remember to treat yourself too after all your feeding your baby and keeping it safe and healthy B-)
  • jcmommyjcmommy
    I know what you mean, I had my first at 19 and suddenly my friends just stopped coming around. We were in two different places in our lives. I picked up gaming. Haha. It made the time pass by, quickly. How has your pregnancy been?
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    @jcmommy lol Yeaa I need a hobby other than laying around all day.. its going great! I saw my Dr yesterday & she said baby is doing perfectly fine.. :)
  • MybabeMybabe
    Yayy shopping I love that yea load up on onesis and bottles stuff like that I wish you the best!!!
  • romeike89romeike89
    Same problem here. The only time we all got together was to go drinking, so now,no calls,no Txt, nothing. It's kinda depressing.
  • Jaime77Jaime77
    I remember being 19, married with a newborn. It does get tremendously lonely, this was before I had internet too. Try joining a mom group through your hospital, you may find a friend your age with much in common.
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    i went shopping & i bought baby some clothes & cute little stuff:) thankk u guys for ur advice @jaime77 that sounds like a really good idea.. im definitely gonna look into that :)
  • vette_devilvette_devil
    Hang in there, hon! I'm 27 & have a 3yr old I stay at home with. It does get lonely at times, esp because my husband works & goes to school full time, so we're alone a lot. And I'm very shy in person, so it sucks. But we'll get through this! I'm here for you, too. Anytime. :)
  • brittbabiiebrittbabiie
    You can email me britt.brown93@gmail.com :)
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    @vette_devil
    @brittbabiie
    thankk u guys sooooo much u have no idea what it means to me :)
  • AmandaS19AmandaS19
    @happiestmommietobe i feel the same way im 19 and my bf works at night so he sleeps during the day we only get to see each other before he goes to work and on the weekends
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    @nova thanks hunn i sure will :)
    @amandas19 that really sucks..especially cuz i couldnt sleep without my husband :/
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    @nova aww haha i fight with him all night bout bed space but i would be more uncomfortable if he wasnt there.. lol :X
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    @nova aaaaaa i have a full size too!!! but no dogs lol i get so mad whn his leg or arm touches me haha but i blame it on the pregnancy so hes just scrunched up in a ball in the corner bahahaha :-j
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    @nova hahaha our husbands are totally alike lol he just constantly wants to be touching me ugh!! before i didnt mind but now its like uuuuugghhhur suffocating me :-t
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    @nova hahahaha aaa ur soo funny.. its cool to see someone else defend her bed space like i do lol
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    @nova lol since whn have u been married?
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    @nova awww how cool.. i got married Nov. 10, 2010 :) & got pregnant within the first three months lol but we had been together for 3 yrs before that.. ur due dec.5? thats a day after my birthday!!!!!!! ;;)
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    @nova i was actually trying to get preg right away!! it didnt take long lol
  • one5oneone5one
    Me too. Im ignored by these bitter bitches. Not like I don't try. But its only always one sided.
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    @nova yeaa thats how we were.. we just prayed so much for our little angel till we found out it was there:) now we pray it comes out healthy!! (it feels weird calling my baby it) but idk what it is yet :/

    @one5one ur friends ignore u??
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    @nova haha i call it my little angel lol alien??? hahhahaha :-))
  • happiestmommietobehappiestmommietobe
    @nova haha yeaa i can see why u say that now.. lol do u have fb??
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