I found out my old doc didn't know what he was talking about......I also found out that since im not working and on unemployment I can get a divorce for free and receive aid......I have a job interview monday for my dream job, please pray I get it.....everything is looking up!
I am going thru a similar situation. Iam 22 && in college full time..my bby daddy is in da pic but he has no job..hes been looking but its hard (we live in fla) any hoo..my mom is threatening to kick me out. I hav a 20 month old already. I wuz thinkin abortion but im 15 weeks && i cnt find it in my heart to go thru w l it. I went to da abortion clinic.once && broke dwn crying && had to leave. It doesnt feel rite. I spoke to a consultant dere && she said talk w l yur mom (which is easier said den done) && if it doesnt feel rite den honestly i wouldnt go thru w l it. I actually wuz trying to get pregnant. My bf is estatic..its his first. Idk where yu live but i kno in fla if yu go to housing developements && sign up && sah yur pregnant && homeless dey will expedite yur sevices && get yu in somewhere asap. Dere r places dat will help yu pay yur bills. I cannot judge far az da abortion cus ive had one && it devestated me for weeks. I look @ my son && i cnt imagine life w l o him! I kno things r hard..believe me! My mom is da one pressuring da abortion thing but im not gona go thru w l it. I jus cnt!! Sweetie i kno things seem like yur @ da end && dis is yur last/only option but God wnt put nothin in front of yu dat yu cnt get thru or walk passd! Think of other options b4 yu go thru w l dis abortion! Its yur life && @ da end of da day yu gotta live w l it. Jus dnt make decisions on da spurr of da moment cus dat neva works. Gud luck && keep us updated!!
Wow mama! I jus read yur last post!! Iam sooo happy! I hav some gud news myself...my gud friend is gona giv my bf a reference fa a job && he has side jobs lined up fa da nxt few weeks where he will get a couple hundred a job iam soo happy fa yu!!! Things do look up...yu jus gotta giv it time!! My situation isnt 100% betta but its turning around..slowly but surely. I jus need a place to stay && i will b settled! Congrats && gud luck
@mixd_mommy ...Im in fla too. Im done with college thank God! Good luck.... with my moms support ill be fine she's helping me apply for aid. Also baby daddy is scared cause we weren't really dating. We aren't with anyone else just no title hope he comes around. R u mixed? Im black and white and baby daddy is puerto rican.
@joy thats gud mama..im glad to hear dat! & ugh..lucky yu..i cnt wait til im done && bein prego doesnt help rite now. Lol. Erry 20 mins im excusin myself from class to go to da bthroom. Lol. && yes im blk && italian. && my bby ddy is black && a lil indian.
@joy sweetheart im glad your family came around for you and your little blessing. I don't really get along with my mom but we put our differences aside because im pregnant with my second baby boy and she really wants to be im my kids lives and I am going to need her help for a few weeks after I have my second because my husband is only gonna be able to take a week off after we have our son. But I would like to tell you that if your babys father doesn't come around to keep you head up dear. Im 22 I had my first son when I was 17 and I did it by myself for 5 years and if I can do it so can you and the rest of you single strong women. Good luck to all of you and keep you heads held high.
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