Terrible idea. Ignorance is bliss to sure! Men do stupid things as it is. Forwarding naked pics of women.. we don't forward naked pics of men to each other! Lol. Prime example of stupid (maybe this will ease your mind) my bf buddy's used to all know these "hot" twins years ago, well one of them works w my bf best friend now. So my bf razzes him w texts like "dude did you hit that yet?!" And stuff like that. I had no idea that he talked like that to his buddies, but whatever. So this guy is in a long term relationship and my man sends him a text along those lines, she reads it while snooping and now thinks he's cheating on her! He's telling me this story and I'm just like smh! I think she was wrong for going thru his phone and now she has to live w the thought that he works w some smoking hot chick that he knows and used to have a crush on! Had she not gone thru his phone she would have no idea! I think she shot herself in the foot. The guys were just being guys and now she's even more insecure.
If u have valid reasons to mistrust go straight to the source and if u don't beieve there is no relationship. Spying is always a terrible idea, if ur wrong he will never trust you again and if ur right ur still in the same boat of mistrust.
@lilpeapod913 I totally agree with you. Guys say & do things (like sending those txts of naked women) just bein guys. Mine does it to, I dont necessarily agree with it, but its a male thing. And if we go snoopin thru their phone, we WILL see something that will most likely upset us, when in most cases, its prob just them being dumb men!
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