Ugh!!! I just want to choke him sometimes.

second_time_mommy7

My husband and I were talking this morning I'm almost 29 weeks with our second child and he is now in the process of planning our third?!?! I wanted all the kids to be 4 years apart, our first 2 will be but he wants to have another soon after this one. I (half) joking said if you want anymore kids you've got about 3 months to start kissing ass. His reply was most guys would have kicked you to the curb with as crazy as this pregnancy has made you. First of all I was crazy before pregnancy dumb a**, second how crazy has this pregnancy made me? He has NEVER went on a craving run, he has rubbed my back maybe twice and that's only because it hurts so bad I was almost it tears walking up the stairs. The whole time I have been pregnant he has not done anything to comfort me. I had all day sickness for the first 18 weeks and not once did he even acknowledge I was sick as a matter of fact I was told to quit bitching because "I wasn't even very pregnant yet". He decides he wants to go on a diet while I'm pregnant with massive cravings and guess what I'm eating chicken and rice every freaking night."but I don't have to" no your freaking right I don't but who wants to cook 2meals for dinner every day?!?! I have catered to him since the day we met and since I have been pregnant I get nothing!!!! Our son is not biologically his and I was with my ex while pregnant with him and I was a complete bitch to him he waited on me hand and foot never complained once so I know its not just me. I have not been nearly as crazy or mean to hubby as I was to bd and he is a complete ass. I mean come on he bitches if I ask him to get me something while he's in the kitchen. Not to mention he doesn't have the balls to tell his mom this is my baby and she cannot act like a bitch because I don't like the boy stuff she picks out for my baby girl, and all the drama that comes with her. Somebody please tell me I'm not to big of a bitch to handle. It really hurts my feelings he says this. And thanks for letting me vent as usual:)

mom60511

He really shouldn't say something so ignorant to a pregnant woman. It could be dangerous to his health.

Viviya

OMG I know how you feel, except that this baby is the one that isn't biologically my husband's (long story). But my ex would rub my feet and make me bubble baths and cook for me even after he worked all day and I WASN'T pregnant! And my husband talks about how he hates pregnancy so much when he didn't help me but maybe twice while I was on bed rest, complained that I used it as an excuse not to do anything, and he's starting a diet too! :O He offered to cook his, though, but I told him no because it still means twice as many dishes if he really does cook his and guess who does the dishes?! Not to mention we can't afford two separate meals every night! xP Are we married to two versions of the same man?

second_time_mommy7

@viviya I know right?!?! We must have found them under the same rock! And the mess my hubby makes fixing anything is enough for me to do anything to keep him out of the kitchen! I just seen that other post about how wonderful the other pregly's hubbys are and as happy as I am for them I just want to gag and go throw a 5 gallon bucket of ice water on my husband who is now in the shower. But not before he came to show me how excited he was that he has lost
3 more pounds!!!!! Yay I'm still pregnant and still craving pecan waffles! What annoys me most is that he expects me to be so interested in his shit but he cannot even pretend to be interested in the pregnancy he wanted, I was happy with one baby! I have read about some of the stuff you went through and I think we both need to borrow someone else's hubby an let them whip ours into shape!

second_time_mommy7

@mom60511 apparently he thinks pregnant women are no different than women who aren't. Not to mention I'm having a girl and all that estrogen cannot be good for ones body:)

Viviya

LoL! I'm behind you with another bucket. And mine already took his shower about a half hour or so ago, he's snoring on the sofa while my daughter sits on him and eats some cereal while pushing her little brother. I just had to tell her we aren't going to the beach if she can't be nice. >w< And in a way I can understand mine not being excited about this baby since it isn't his, BUT he made a big deal when begging me to come back home with him in January that he would love this child and treat it and everything about it the exact same as the two children we share. Yeah...that's why he's telling my family how the third child is pretty much 'just another kid, big deal' when our first (a girl) was too precious to take out of the house until she was 3 months old (to see my grandparents at their house) and our second (a boy) was a HUGE deal. Yeah, the little boy he swore to help care for is still missing a lot of things that he needs right now, and guess what the main cause behind that is? :O Hey, @blueberrysmom , can I get a throat punch or two in here? ~:> LoL

mom60511

Maybe we should throw them down and kick them or give them a good kidney punch with the throat punch @blueberrysmom .

Viviya

Sounds good to me! :-)) Ohmigosh my kids are being something else right now!!! I can't believe he's sleeping through it when he's right there on the sofa!!!

blueberrysmom

Reporting for duty! THROAT PUNCH! (takes a breather) DOUBLE THROAT PUNCH! AAAAAAAARGH!