my little sister is driving me Insane!

Mammacat

I already have enough stress with my bd and since ive came back home my 13 year old sister thinks she can do what she,wants and has always been that way because my dad babies her and my mom quit punishing her. she wears my clothes without asking even though they dont fit me atm she needs to ask for permission, she goes through my things and helps herself and steals my makeup while im asleep, and now that I have a baby on the way she takes her bottles and pacifiers and drinks and sucks on them! She baby talks to my dad which shes always done but im sick of her crap and anytime I get onto her she talks back and tells me she font have to listen to me and screams loudly. I love my family but I cant take her bs anymore. What can I do? My parents wont go through with anything so im alone on this but im moments away from slapping her >_<

rckprincess2

Id say kick her ass but that sounds like it might be illegal age wise lol. No really though put a lock on ur door. I had to do that because a cousin would do that. I wasn't prego at the time though. Was going through a divorce. If it were me with my temper I have right now id def go off on her and probably my mom as well. I understand it is their house but u are either an adult or atleast have ur own priorities and responsiblities to deal with. You need to sit ur parents down and talk to them about this issue while u are not angry.

mommys1stbundle

She sucks your babies bottles and pacis?? That's just sick. She obviously has a complex about not being the baby anymore. I agree with @rckprincess2, put a lock on the door. That's the only thing I can think of short of smacking her around a little. Maybe you can threaten to tell her friends what a weirdo she is. 13year olds usually care about stuff like that. I mean your clothes and makeup are one thing but you babies stuff is totally different. Its unsanitary.

Proudmomma

Tell her about the diseases she can pass to the baby and if she is going to be a cool aunt she needs to stop and plus she will be teaching the baby to steal from her. If that doesn't work take her stuff or sell it if she ruins yours lmao

Mammacat

I want a lock so bad but everytime I ask my dad to get one for my door he forgets
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Im 19 btw id hate to smack her but she thinks the world revolves around her and im sick of it. She has a closet full of clothes from abercrombie and I dont have much and she wears my shirts to sleep saying "i dont wanna wear my shirts to bed cause I need to wear a bra with them and I dont want to wear one to sleep" wtf kind of bs is that! I told her to suck it up or sleep naked lol

I agree its one thing to mess with my stuff but not my baby that sounds gross! I literally threw away every bottle and pacifier she sucked on but I hid some in the babies crib she even sucks a pacifier my cat chews on that I gave him as a toy yuck!
She needs to suck it up cause in 5 weeks its going to end im not gonna have her steal from both me and my baby. Next act she pulls im smacking her.

rckprincess2

Sounds like ur dad is "forgetting" my dad did that until I just bought the damn thing self and installed it myself...wasn't nearly as hard as I had thought was going to be. Def though she can't act like that forever the baby will come first and she is going to have to learn out to act like a teen instead of a little kid. I would expect that from a small child ya know.

hiannaaa

Lmao @ having to wear a bra with her shirts. She sounds like a little demon.

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if that was my sister, not to sound crazy, but i really would probably slap her! its tough love!! some teens need some common sense knocked into them. she just sounds really spoiled.. my cousin acts the same exact way and its because she spoiled.

Mammacat

Yea I can install the lock myself but it makes me angry cause hes a maintenance man >_<
Shes extremely spoiled! she will cry like a baby until she gets what she wants. one time my mom was shopping for the baby and my sister kept saying "she dont need that she had enough" and says shes gonna teach her to do everything. I love herbut hell no its my baby im not having a little girl try to control my babies life out of jealousy.
she even bosses my cats around and one of them has multiple medical conditions and I think breast cancer
Im just so irritated ...

SamiUK

My sister a brat to nothing to do with my mum or any one babying her she's just a b¡tch lol, i just ignore her though luckily i don't live there ! could you sit and speak to your parents alone when she at school or in bed? they might just be has stressed has you x