BD Shock...
Ok so I just recieved a letter in the post from the bd. Which in side had another evelope and a note. The note reads:
"Robynn,
I am really sorry for everything I have put you through and that I shall continue to put you through. I'm sorry that Elliot is going to be fatherless and that I couldn't see through the family life with you guys. However, I need to live my life and be the person I am now free to be. Hopefully this will see you through the pregnancy and Elliot's arrival. Please do not contact me again, even with regards to Elliot.
Michael."
So yeah that broke my heart into a million tiny pieces. Though to add insult to injury that little evelope contained £100. What kinda guy plans a family with you then abandons you both with £100??? How horrible, Elliot is now going to grow up thinking his daddy didn't want him and he won't be wrong
I don't want that for my son. It's not Elliot's fault or mine I know that, but his gunna feel unwanted and it is going to be true. Just as I am unwanted. 
"Robynn,
I am really sorry for everything I have put you through and that I shall continue to put you through. I'm sorry that Elliot is going to be fatherless and that I couldn't see through the family life with you guys. However, I need to live my life and be the person I am now free to be. Hopefully this will see you through the pregnancy and Elliot's arrival. Please do not contact me again, even with regards to Elliot.
Michael."
So yeah that broke my heart into a million tiny pieces. Though to add insult to injury that little evelope contained £100. What kinda guy plans a family with you then abandons you both with £100??? How horrible, Elliot is now going to grow up thinking his daddy didn't want him and he won't be wrong
I don't want that for my son. It's not Elliot's fault or mine I know that, but his gunna feel unwanted and it is going to be true. Just as I am unwanted.
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I don't know how child support works where you are, but that letter seems like an admission of being the father and just a lack of wanting the responsibility..which is in your favor for paternity and support.
Since he's that much of an ass to think that amount is "good enough" yu and Elliot are far better off without him.
I'm sorry you're hurting, neither of you deserve this. But you seem like a strong woman who can be there for Elliot and make up for the lack of father. It's much better to have no father, than one who comes and goes.
Good luck gorgeous. My love is with you.
I know you're in the UK, so laws are likely different, but can you get an attorney after him? If so, that letter will be vastly important to keep. If he's going to be such a horrible human being to walk away from not only you, but his son & this family he planned, than I would go after him with everything I have, every resource available, & every avenue open to me. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Show that SOB exactly why that saying was ever written, my dear.
He thinks a measely £100 can buy his precious "freedom?" I'd use that very same money to help hire an attorney & take him to court!!!
I'm sorry...I'm just so angry for you. But please don't despair. This sperm donor isn't rejecting your son; he's obviously a terrible coward & completely self-centered. What he's rejecting is the idea of being a father. Elliot is perfect & beautiful & innocent, & if this repulsive "man" can walk away so easily, you're both better off without him. You WILL find a wonderful man who will love both you & your son like his own. I have faith in that. Stay strong, sweetie!! If you need to talk, I'm here.
Stay strong. I'm sending you all my love & support!