mentally but not physically... plz help suggestions plz

QueenBeeDarling

Is it possible to mentally want sex but not physically??? I think about it and my hubby all the time, but then when it comes down to it I no longer want to be touched! I feel so bad bcuz my hubby wants it soooo bad, I do too I mean mentally.... I need help what do I do????

mommaof2_bbylove

I also have this problem! I think about it and get him worked up via text and then it comes down to it n Im like..ew no. But what's helped me is instead of having sex at night like before we do it mid day. Hope that helps a little

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QueenBeeDarling

Thanks ladies! Ill have to try both because somethings gotta work, I feel so bad for him. =/

expectingmy2nd

Im the same way, mentally I think I want it because my hormones are telling me I do but when it comes to actually getting physical, I don't want it at all. It has been a month since we've been physical. I feel bad rejecting him all the time but I have no desire to have sex even though my hormones tell me otherwise.

QueenBeeDarling

Its such an awful feeling, and I'm sure my hubby feels a thousand times worse bcuz I never want it. I don't want him to feel unwanted, bcuz its not that way at all.