i dont know what too do im 16weeks 6days and..

mummytuube

I dont feel i can take anymore stress im 17 i have had a hard life (nothing too do with family) whice has made me have mental health problems i see a lot of people for treatment and i have a very stressful life still i always wana cry even before i became pregs also my babydad and me argue qwite alot and today feels like its time too call it a day i love him sooo much we been together nearly two yrs but i also hate him right now i mean too the point ive never hated Someone so much i duno weather too go or not my heads a big mess and too top it off im not on any meds for my phsycotic episodes! Help

mummytuube

Also because of my mental helth problems social services say the babys high risk whice also adds too the stress

betty

Friend, u need to calm dwn... your not only hurting u, but also hurtn bby. Take it day by day. It all has to do with preggo hormones... Hun, it will get better! If u cant stand bd right now, I suggest you move,away from him and things will fall back in place. Just hold on tight and be strong! Baby needs you more than anything! Think about bby

cicelia

I'm sorry hun. Take it one thing at a time, continue seeing your therapists and following their plan for you. Things will work out, its just hard to see in the middle of it. Maybe take some time away from bd and figure things out for yourself. I hope you have parents/ family support. Let me know if you need someone to talk with, I'm always around

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mummytuube

@betty @cecelia @mshahir thank u all for ur support we do live together and we abit financially unstable and also i cant help but spend my money on nothing whice makes him mad cause i cry as i have no money :-\ im gunna have a chaat with him tonight and see how it goes and what he says

hiannaaa

You sound just like me :-| good luck girl

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Chuieycuzca22

I suffer from pretty bad depression as well and have a pretty stressful life but I found that as much as it hurts some situations have to be let go. I let go of the bd, a LOT of family members that were stressing me and I went back on my meds. I realized that the benefits of taking the meds outweighed the risk of not taking them and possibly harming myself and the baby. So far the baby looks healthy at each scan and all tests have come back normal. Sometimes you have to distance yourself from the problems. Its tough but you will benefit you and the baby in the long run. Good luck Hon.

mummytuube

Yeh i guess im allowed them as and when i need them but the ones im on the baby will come out addicted and have too b weaned of them i mean im not being funny but my poor baby dont need me too b like this let alone givin them meds