only 7 weeks pregnant and husband already fines me unattractive

angel

So I was 148lbs and my husband had a previous marriage and his exwife is of course the skinny beautiful blond woman. He married me about over a year ago and I am very short and chunky. I notice certain things that show he is unattracted to me. Of course now I'm pregnant and I have gained more weight and we can't even go to the grocery store without him being more interested in the beautiful skinny blond girls. That's what he likes.

angel

I want a baby so bad but I would rather not and go to some kind of boot camp and dye my hair blond with a nice tan. I'm scared I will soon be a single mother or miscarry from the stress. I just can't take it anymore....

nicksmommy

i undertand you...i weight 138 and before getting prego i was 115 with big booty, now i dont have a big booty but a big round tummy....my bf does comment on big booty wen we go out but i also do too since am bi, but wen i have a chance i let him n
know i dont like those comments he makes and stops and tells me am beautiful jus the way i am. maybe u should try telling him you dont like wat he tells you...ur beautiful am sure;) be happy wit ur baby..

kritten_octoberbby

I used to be 125 now im 145my husband finds me attractive until i eat and he is like mmm..its like what do u want me to do...starve the baby..i eat when everyone else eats..not to mention we are supposed to eat small meals throughout the day...

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lily_glz

I find myself sort of unattractive but I know its all for the baby so I don't mind... hubby luckily finds pregnant women attractive lol I'm only 12wks and have gained 12 lbs already! Mostly in my butt thighs and a little belly

angel

I hate to say this but he had a child from a previous marriage and I am his little boys mommy in his eyes and even though I know he settle for me because for men its hard to pick up women when u have that much baggage. I really am starting to believe he settled for me because of that reason. I'm young with a big booty myself! I'm 21 and he is 28. I'm just really starting to feel its getting worse because I gained 40 lbs as it is since we have been together and now I'm gaining more weight. Gross! I know gaining weight now is for a good reason but u women are lucky to have ur spouses attracted to u even though ur pregnant

awhaley28540

When I eat my husband looks at me and says again?! Lol. I was 125 when we first got together and after my son I weighed 160. I'm pregnant again. And started this pregnancy at 155. So who knows how big I will get. I'm really insecure now. I cry a lot about it when we hang out with pretty girls. And skinny girls.

MSC

Truth be told I don't care what my husband thinks. He married me, for better or for worse, so he's just going to accept me for all that I am. And for all that I am not. Just like I do for his non-perfect self! Dont let anyone give you a complex for their insecurities. Be happy, be strong, and radiate during this special time in your life.

jcmommy

All men are like that! Even the greatest of men have wandering eyes. I use to be extra skinny before my first child and after him I didn't loose my belly and now with my 2nd, my husband is already telling me that I better lose it all this time. I'm only 116lbs at 17wks. Jerk! Haha. I tell him that he's STUCK with me so he better get use to it.

MrsLaMaster

I feel u ladys, my hubby used to tell me I look good ,and would cuddle with me,till I got prego im 18 weeks now , so I went shopping and found a bra an underware set, that said love it or lose it in big gold letters so I put it on and wore it around the bed room ,he said is that new it looks good on u ...lol I think he got the picture,,cus everytime I ware it he kisses butt....

Lovethemoon

wow angel.... i am sorry to hear that you think your husband does not find you attractive... i am a bigger girl and i constantly struggle around the thinner girls in my life... i am over 200 and preg!! my bf is a tattoo artist and so he tattoos these skinny girls on there ribs all the time and sometimes i feel bad about myself and wonder why he is with a fatter girl like me when he can be with a thinner girl... then i think to myself that I AM BEAUTIFUL!! i honestly dont have the same problem as you other than he has a kid with the x but i treat her as my own and have for 2 years since she has been around. the only suggestion i can give you that helps me every day is to make sure you dont stop taking care of yourself no matter how big you get, some women forget to take care of themselves and apperances when they get preg... i make sure that i do my make up and my hair every day even if i dont feel like it and it helps with myself... sometimes if you feel good about yourself then your husband might notice something different and you both will be happier... i hope things get better... xoxo

YazminAdrianne

All pregnant girls are beautiful, he Should know you have a beautiful little human growing inside of you.

chelsea

He shouldn't think your not beautiful anymore. I was feeling bad about gaining weight. Then my boyfriend told me he didn't care and I was pretty know matter what. He told me I might gain weight but its good because we will have a healthy baby. That's what really matters. You should try to talk to him so he understands what you are going through. Good luck sorry he isn't being nice about it.

vette_devil

My husband dated a girl who was anorexic before we met & I was insecure about being 150lbs compared to her less than 100 for more than 2 years... then when I told him how I felt, he said "Don't forget who I married... you! She was an idiot & self-centered. You are beautiful & giving. She's my ex for a reason! I thought you were out of my league!"... remember who he's married to & who he's having a baby with... baby weight is only temporary & for a wonderful cause...

sammie

Oh well if he doesnt find u attractive there are plenty of other men out there who will.