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brittbabiie

I'm starting to regret my pregnancy and that maybe I should have gotten an aborion because I feel like such a failure ; I kno me and his dad wont be together long :"( I have to depend on his dad bec I can't support this baby :"( things are getting worse by the day

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Im srry you are going through this....adoption is always an option.

Just know plenty of women do it alone and you can too.

But if you know that you can't support that child emotionally and financially there are plenty of families that would provide him with that and it wouldnt make you any less of a person.

brittbabiie

@newmommy_navywife Every time he makes me feel this way I consider it because my son deserves loving parents and me and his dad don't fit into that category.

jcmommy

You will learn to survive. You will learn how to get by. I was "friends" with my baby daddy for 3 months when I found out I was pregnant at 18. I had no money and who knew if he was gonna stick around since he didn't love me. I now have a healthy 5 yr old who is my everything. I'm making good money now and he doesn't do without. It takes time but once you stop feeling sorry for yourself, you'll open your eyes to the bigger picture. Good luck to you.

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Well don't make the decision based off of a man or emotions...this has to be a well thought out decision. But like I said earlier plenty of women do it alone, it may be harder but not impossible.

Good luck!