pregnant??? please help!!!

ok. so im 9 days late.. 2 tests have given me BFN's... there was just very very very lite brown spotting today.. no cramps.. no normal PMS symptoms.. boobs dont hurt.. nothing.. the husband and i had sex everyday before he left for basic on may 25th.. the week i was supposed to ovulate it was twice a day.. when i was pregnant in march i knew to take a test because i was throwing up with no real fever...

so the question... whats the likelihood that im pregnant and its not showing in my urine?? anyone else had this happen to them?? i took a test on memorial day and this morning.. BFN's on both..

p.s. Im waiting on my new insurance cards to come in the mail before i go to the doctors office.

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  • With my first one I didn't test positive until I was almost 12 weeks along..my hormones are really really messed up! Try again in a few days, or in the first mornings pee
  • With my pregnancy, I missed my period, which was supposed to be on the 16 of december...and I Didn't get a positive test result until the day after christmas, 26th. Before then I got all negatives, but I knew I was pregnant because my period is never over three days late. I didn't really have any early pregnancy symptoms, I just knew there was a little bean in there!
  • I didn't get a positive till 2 weeks later with this pregnancy! I knew I was though cuz I never miss a period. :D
  • I have a 28 -30 day cycle so this is like what day 39 or 40?? something like that my mom says its because im stressed because my husband just left for the Army and im probably not over being depressed (which i am and have been for 2 years...) she is not at all "worried" my family has no idea that we are TTC so.... I just keep going to the bathroom and while im peeing im going "i want to be pregnant, i want to be pregnant" im praying that i am because we have been trying so long.. and it would be the perfect time to get pregnant right now
  • I'm not sure about the hormone levels, just cuz I don't have any experience with it. But I sure hope you are!! Stay positive! I know it's possible! Have you gone to the doc? I would go in and request a bloodtest! Good luck!!
  • @bensmama i know you know how long hubby and i have been trying so im sure you know what im going through.. saddly i gave up my health insurance at the end of the month because hubby left for the army and now im on thier insurance.. and im STILL waiting on the new ID cards.. so for now its all out of pocket.. and im sure the day i go in the next day ill have the id cards.. hubby says the Army sent them out a week ago so any day now.. im just praying that im pregnant because i have NEVER been this late!! even my MC in march was only 4 days passed missed period so if i am pregant im 5 1/2 weeks and thats farther than the last one and the one from when i was 16
  • Ah, gotcha. Yeah that's tough, I'm sure it'd be expensive out of pocket. Free clinic in the area? Sounds like there's a better chance that you are than you aren't, so I think you should just live like you are and hope it's confirmed really soon! You're taking prenatals already, right? I'll be praying for a good outcome for you! You deserve it!
  • @bensmama yes im taking prenatals have been since we started trying the doctor said that was best since it gives the baby a head start and all.. today the spotting was like really really lighter.. like only every other time i went to the bathroom i saw a faint amount. Also my friend called me today and told me she is 5 weeks pregnant so im hoping i am too because our due dates will be 4 days apart!! that would be really cool! i keep praying that i am pregnant i would love to have a baby right now :) and if i still havent started by sunday im going to take another test.. im going to take a test ever sunday until its positive or i start.. and trust me im praying my behind off!! lol btw how is everything going with you?? you pregnant or still TTC??
  • go to the doctor and do a blood test
  • @pregointx im still waiting on my new insurance ID cards.. as soon as i get those im going as long as i havent started yet.. the free clinic only does urine tests around here and im getting BFNs with the hpts so i think it might be a waste. same thing with planned parenthood and they charge 36 dollars to take a pregnancy test.. i looked into it and its urine too the can only refer me to have a blood test taken but thats out of pocket too. :-<
  • o ok good luck %%-
  • Prayers are a good thing! I'll keep ya in mine! That's awesome about your friend! With my first, my friend and I were due a week apart and it was great! Yup, I'm still ttc. I'll actually be testing Sunday, too! (assuming af doesn't show!) How cool would that be if we wound up belly buddies after all? I sure hope so!
  • @bensmama i hope so too!! i feel like you and i have been like right there with eachother since we joined lol! it would be really cool to be pregnant at the same time too! good luck sending sticky baby dust your way along with prayers!!! %%-
  • Got my BFP :D
  • Any news with you? I now really really really want to hear you got a BFP, like ASAP! BABY DUST, my friend!
  • @bensmama Congratulations!
  • Mine showed up 1 week after I missed. I had some spotting too but didn't get sick until 4 months later. I just had major bad cramping. But, everyone is different, and me being pregnant with twins my hormone levels would be higher. Just keep checking it out or schedule an appointment for a blood test.
  • @bensmama i havent heard anything yet.. still getting BFN's?!! I thought i might be late from stress from the hubby leaving for so long but i have been doing yoga and keeping busy and i feel a big difference in my stress levels but still nothing.. i am hearing from him on a regular basis now so that helps and everything seems to be back to normal but im still not having a period and not getting a BFP so im just praying that i dont end up like one of those women on i didnt know i was pregnant because i keep getting BFN's!!.. you know what i mean??!! lol
  • I had a dr's appt on Tues, for my anatomy ultrasound, that I did not want to cancel, but my insurance card hadn't arrived yet. I called the office and they were actually able to look up my insurance by my husband's social security number. I don't have military insurance, but you might call and see what they can do! I've seen a lot of people on here who don't get bfp's on urine tests, but do once they draw blood.

    I also didn't find out I was pregnant until I was 8 weeks, because I had heavy spotting at 4 and 7 1/2 weeks that I assumed was a light period.
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