Not sure how to take this.....**update 6/11***
So today I start my 3rd trimester. I am so happy that I am going to get to meet my little guy in less then 13 weeks! Well my hubby tried for 6 years to get pregnant and now that I am, I just want to share stuff on Facebook. I have the babygaga thing that posts every week and whenever we have appts I post about them, also I always post pictures of the ultrasounds. Now keep in mind I have family all over the world, and seeing this stuff on Facebook is how they are connected to this pregnancy.
Now here is the problem, a very close guy friend of mine posted this comment to my status (status said, Starting my 3rd trimester! Only 13 weeks to go!)
Awesome. No more I'm pregnant statuses. Awesome.
Then it's nothing but baby baby baby. Awesome.
Please don't forget you're still a person and not only a mother.
I mean that in the best and most sincere way.
Now I am not sure how I am supposed to take this.....I don't know, maybe it is because he is a man and has a kid that he is only a part time dad too, or something. But doesn't your whole life change once the baby comes? I mean he is going to be my whole world, isn't that the way it is supposed to be? He is supposed to come first, I choose to stay home with my kid instead of going out and partying? Also keep in mind I am 30 years old, so I am just not sure what to think of this comment.....What do you guys think?
**Update***
So my dear friend deleted me on Facebook, so I sent him a message and said WTH! We have a difference of opinion and you don't wanna be my friend anymore? He said he thought that is what I wanted. I said if we were meant to agree on everything we would have stopped being friends a long time ago! He apologized and I told him if he doesn't like seeing my posts, then to just ignore them, that is what I do with his! I don't send him comments that hurt his feelings. He said he was sorry for being a jerk....So now everything is fine and his wife is going to proof read everything he comments on my posts from now on! lol
Now here is the problem, a very close guy friend of mine posted this comment to my status (status said, Starting my 3rd trimester! Only 13 weeks to go!)
Awesome. No more I'm pregnant statuses. Awesome.
Then it's nothing but baby baby baby. Awesome.
Please don't forget you're still a person and not only a mother.
I mean that in the best and most sincere way.
Now I am not sure how I am supposed to take this.....I don't know, maybe it is because he is a man and has a kid that he is only a part time dad too, or something. But doesn't your whole life change once the baby comes? I mean he is going to be my whole world, isn't that the way it is supposed to be? He is supposed to come first, I choose to stay home with my kid instead of going out and partying? Also keep in mind I am 30 years old, so I am just not sure what to think of this comment.....What do you guys think?
**Update***
So my dear friend deleted me on Facebook, so I sent him a message and said WTH! We have a difference of opinion and you don't wanna be my friend anymore? He said he thought that is what I wanted. I said if we were meant to agree on everything we would have stopped being friends a long time ago! He apologized and I told him if he doesn't like seeing my posts, then to just ignore them, that is what I do with his! I don't send him comments that hurt his feelings. He said he was sorry for being a jerk....So now everything is fine and his wife is going to proof read everything he comments on my posts from now on! lol
Comments
had your friend not made the no more preggo and then judt baby comment, I wouldn't see anything wrong with his "you're still a person" comment. A lot of women tend to be so wrapped up in their children, they have nothing left to give their partners..its possible that was the case with his ex? But since he did....you could alwaus shoot him a "if its suvh problem block my status feed or delete me cuz they ain't stopping!message"
JOSH: almost all of ur facebook posts r bout u complaining or begging... what r u gonna do when u have 2 do things for urself. jw is all
to which i posted: other than my bf i do do everything for myself and most of my posts are just me being a smart alec or joking around
now my supposedly bff like this ass's comment and then posted to him:i knew we were friends for a reason u know wat im talking about :-)
am i in the wrong for just wantin to not wanna talk to her.... and the sad thing is that the post i had posted before he posted on my wall was "hmm someone should bring me a blizzard, any kind im not picky"