Sad-HELP!!!! I dont know what.....

Prayin_4_twins

I am numb right now! Idk how to feel or what to do! I am still having cravings, I'm moody/emotional, nausea, some heartburn, white discharge.......I have taken 3 times now & all 3 have come back neg, they are $1 ones but I hate spending $ on expensive ones only to be disappointed or let down, we have been ttc for over 16 months now! This is becoming very heart breaking ti me! I have wanted to be a mommy more than ANYTHING in the world since I was 12! I was obviously too young to even be thinking about sex, but I babysat for my cousins for years & was always told "you are going to be an amazing mom". Bc I have been having period issues, the dr put me on chlomid to produce ovulation and bc my dr said that bc of all my female fam history my time is running out I am very upset right now & don't know what to do! Thank you for reading & any input,, its greatly appreciated!

Sheentahlea

My SIL swears by Chlomid. She turned 30 last April and they had pretty much given up after 8 years of nothing. BAM! She get preggers with my little Briley Paige who is due on her 31st birthday. Don't give up hope. My hubby and I are ttc as well, have been trying off and on for 2 years. We want a child the same as you do. Keep the faith. Maybe it is your turn. It can happen for you! We are waiting to test again bc I can't face another negative right now. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers! Wishing you nothing but the best!

mommyinwaiting

I know how you both feel. I have been trying for about 3 years now. I had been on the depo shot for 5 years before that. It really screwed up my system. I was due for a period 7 weeks and 4 days ago, and get all negatives. Two things bother me, pregnancy tests are expensive, and I want it so badly. I am going to have to wait another week and test again...

Kmose77

Thats a hard one, but try to do something to take your mind off it for a few days. I know that seems impossible but try to relax. Stress does a lot to your body. I have a co worker who was in the same position. His wife is tiny and has issues with sclurosis sory bad sp but basicly had a lot of issues and wasn't sure she could get preg. After 2years of trying she started on the same thing I believe. Chlomid. And she is now preg with twins after just a few months. Sick, but doing well lol. So realx all you can give it another week if you can just hold off, take some time. Then try another test. I really don't thing the expencive test are any better. 1test tend to need a lil stronger hcg level to detect though. So give it some time. Then try first thing in the morning. GOOD LUCK keep us posted!!

babymaxisontheway

Good luck. And I hope everything wrks out! Rememer god has a plan for everyone so when its time it will happen!! My husand and I didn't really try to prevent having a baby and weren't really trying ut after 2 yrs of being married I was getting really down and we staryed trying more and it was to the point that I thought one of us couldn't and I was ready to go talk to a doc about it. My brother called me and said hey we are having a baby and I satrted crying so bad. And then a week later I found out I was preggo too I was about 6wks when I found out. So just keep trying if you not and don't give up!

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izander4

Im a young mother to be (im only 19) but i can tell you that patience is the best thing when it comes to getting prego.....pregnancy tests don't always work, which was my case.....i went to go visit my mom for a couple weeks, and the whole time i was so nauseated and tired, didnt know why. My aunt told me to get a pregnancy test (she knows pregnant when she sees it (she had 4)....but anyway....i get home and take 2 tests: one comes up negative, the other a faint positive. Long story short, i went to the doctor and they took my urine, which looked a faint + and afterwards they took my blood-the next day it showed up +. I found out i was 2 months prego when i went for the first ultrasound that day. Don't always trust tests because NONE of them are accurate in the very beginning. I was 2 mos prego and it still didnt show up on those tests; make sure they take your blood when you go to the doctor, because is the only definite way of knowing.

Prayin_4_twins

@MrsCritchfield I have heard great stoies about Chlomid, so I am stoked! Plz tell ur SIL& bro Congrats, Super cute/pretty name, & their preg is an amazing blessing! Good luck to u & ur hubby! Keep us posted for sure!@mommyinwaiting I don't like that darn depo shot name! O have a close friend w/ the same issue, have u been to fertility dr yet? Good luck! @kmose77 Thank you, I am very happy to hear about another positive Chlomid story it gives me hope! Congrats to you! @babymaxisontheway Awww so u guys are prego together that is awesome! Congrats keep posted! @Simplyraven22406 Thank you, accepting tons of baby dust *****@izander4 Thank you! Congrats, Good luck, keep us posted!
ALL: THANK YOU SOOOO. much!!! I think I will test this morning then just wait for af if needed then start my new round of chlomid, This forum is the best place! All my friends are prego & don't understand what hubby and I are going through, it was hard for my husband when he was asked to test his sperm, thankfully he did & we now know it my body so we focus there. We are prayin for twin w/ all our might, I know we must be crazy right! Congrats & Good Luck to everyone Keep us posted & I will do the same.

Prayin_4_twins

Just an update I tested w/ an early response (its 6 am) but I got a neg. guess we will just have to wait it out for af then take another round of chlomid (maybe he will up the dose)

Prayin_4_twins

Could these be false neg??????? What if my hcg lebels are just super low??? I am still feeling nausea, my abdomen is feelin all funny, cravings, moody, white discharge, frequent urination.......ah frustrating! When I was on provera we thought I might be so I did a blood test, when they told me I wasn't I was devistated, @ least w/ hpt I can be upset in my own house w/out anyone thinking I'm psycho for thinking I was preg plus $35 for that test just added to it!

katlilly

I was just going to say take a blood test then I read your last post. Some women can't get a pos on hpt's for whatever reason. How late are you on your period?

Prayin_4_twins

4 days that's why I'm so confused

Kmose77

Ita hard to say wait, if you really feel you are, give it a week or two. Again though dwelling on it you can psych yourself out. Try to get some funny movies, plan some meals, just fill your time with careless things if you can, if your still late more then a week then I would hit a clinic or your dr office and try a blood test if its not coming pos. But your body has been through a lot. Give it a little time Suckyest part!! Have you got your ovulation down also? Some times when your off a few days it can make all the difference. Or just have sex every two days for like two weeks streight lol But I'm sure it will happen. My husband and I were totally normal, and our first one took 9mo to concieve. You really only have a 1 to 3 day window on ave to get preg every month. So when you think about it. thats pretty small window. So even though its been 16 mo, thats only 16 tries. Keep your head up! Think of all the hand me downs you will have from your friends if you have a baby after them!! lol Good luck!

Prayin_4_twins

@Kmose77 Thank you for all the advice! I am just gonna have to learn to calm down about it all but its true Thanks again!

mommyinwaiting

But when you are trying and want it so badly, it is hard to relax about it. but will try...

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