Co-parenting???
Why is it so freakin hard? It doesn't need to be. I wish people could just grow up and move on.
Most if you know I'm a step-mom. I love Mia and Isaiah like no other. Nobody can tell me that "it's different" or that "I'll see after Abigail is born". I've raised these kids just as much as any other parent.
I Potty trained, I'm Santa, the Tooth Fairy, Easter Bunny etc.... I do it all. They trust me and love me, and I've worked really hard to make sure that in spite of all the hostility that they continue to flourish and for the most part be unaffected.
I'm getting to my breaking point. Their mother is evil. She makes up blatant lies and no matter what we do she finds something to complain about. All her energy is placed into criticizing, and making our lives as miserable as possible. I just don't understand it. I know Ernie made his mistakes years ago and hurt her but why try and keep your children from bonding and enjoying their time with their father? It's ignorant and immature.
This added stress has been torture on me the last week. I just feel like I can't take it anymore. I'm filled with hate now. I'm losing sleep and my migraines are out of control. I feel like I just want to pick up and run away. Ugh! This is why I've been MIA on here lately
I just can't concentrate on anything else. I'm so scared of how much worse things will become once Abby's born. I had such high hopes for things to become normal and Mia and Isaiah would be able to enjoy being a big brother and sister but unfortunately it seems like things will just get worse. We're being forced to distance ourselves in an attempt to limit her ability to interfere with our lives and time with the kids
It's just sad.....
Most if you know I'm a step-mom. I love Mia and Isaiah like no other. Nobody can tell me that "it's different" or that "I'll see after Abigail is born". I've raised these kids just as much as any other parent.
I Potty trained, I'm Santa, the Tooth Fairy, Easter Bunny etc.... I do it all. They trust me and love me, and I've worked really hard to make sure that in spite of all the hostility that they continue to flourish and for the most part be unaffected.
I'm getting to my breaking point. Their mother is evil. She makes up blatant lies and no matter what we do she finds something to complain about. All her energy is placed into criticizing, and making our lives as miserable as possible. I just don't understand it. I know Ernie made his mistakes years ago and hurt her but why try and keep your children from bonding and enjoying their time with their father? It's ignorant and immature.
This added stress has been torture on me the last week. I just feel like I can't take it anymore. I'm filled with hate now. I'm losing sleep and my migraines are out of control. I feel like I just want to pick up and run away. Ugh! This is why I've been MIA on here lately
I just can't concentrate on anything else. I'm so scared of how much worse things will become once Abby's born. I had such high hopes for things to become normal and Mia and Isaiah would be able to enjoy being a big brother and sister but unfortunately it seems like things will just get worse. We're being forced to distance ourselves in an attempt to limit her ability to interfere with our lives and time with the kids
It's just sad.....
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Like seriously im sick of these girls having kids and making them suffer bc they have a grudge against the father. MOVE THE FUCK ON, HE DOESN'T WANT YOU!
Its pitiful and desperate that ernie has moved on and she is still playing high school girls games of "im gonna make him jealous/mad".
UGH!
@blueberrysmom it makes me sad....I mean things could be really easy if she would just stop focusing on making Ernie's life difficult and just learn to compromise for the benefit of all parties. Ugh!!! Makes my stomach hurt!
@momtob thanks lady