I'M GOING TO CHOKE THE EVER-LOVING LIFE OUT OF HIM!!!!!!
I woke up in a pretty decent mood this morning. Watched a little TV, hopped on Pregly, then went to see what's up on Facebook like every other morning. Well, my fiance' didn't log out of his Facebook (he never does), so I waited for the slow ass page to load up so I could sign out of his, and into mine. But, before that could happen, a little chat box thing popped up in the bottom corner, and I'm nosy, so I clicked on it to see who it was. It turned out to be someone just saying hi, so I was going to ignore it, but then a WHOLE coversation pops up above it, so I scroll up, and start reading. Not even 3 sentences into the conversation, she offers to send him naked pictures, and he fucking AGREES to it. Oh hell to the fuck no. He was asleep next to me in the bed, so I pushed his ass out, and once he woke up after he hit the floor, I told him to pack his shit and get out. Of course, he's still half asleep, so he's clueless as to what's going on, he thinks I'm joking.. NOT! Once he realizes I'm serious he starts asking what he did, and why I don't want him anymore, so I tell him. His defence was.. SHE ISN'T EVEN REAL.. of all fucking things (after I forced myself to read the coversation again, I did see that it was one of those bot things). So, I accepted the fact she was fake, but I was still highly pissed. He goes on to say, I knew she wouldn't send me pictures, I was just being stupid. I asked him, and what if she DID send you naked pictures? I guess that's what you wanted from the get go, right? You don't touch me anymore, we NEVER have sex, and when we do, it's because I come on to YOU, and the whole time I feel like I'm being a burden. I told him to pack his shit, and be gone by this evening. I NEVER THOUGHT HE'D DO SOMETHING LIKE THIS!! IT'S JUST SO NOT HIM!! Well, he starts packing.. then he starts crying, he told me he was going to tell me about it, and let me play along with the whole thing, but he didn't, and he should have. That he was an idiot, and he wishes I'd understand. He begged me to change my mind. So, what did I do, well, I went hormonal on him, slapped him in the face, and told him this was the ABSOLUTE first time I've EVER questioned our relationship, the FIRST time he's EVER made me wonder about myself, it may be the first time for A LOT of things, BUT it WILL be the last. I gave him 1 more chance, if something like this happens again, we're DONE. End of story. He agreed to that, and on his own free will deleted his Facebook and Yahoo accounts. So, whatever, I go on with my morning. About 20 minutes ago, I started getting dressed to go tour the hospital, so I wake him up so he can get ready. I'm pulling on my shirt at that point, then he says, we can't go, I'm too tired.. WHAT?!? I've been planning today for over 2 weeks now, making sure I had a ride, the whole nine, now I'm sitting here listening to him snore. I COULD KILL HIM TODAY!!!
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Ice water sounds like a winner! He definately deserves it today! And, after the sheets get all wet, he can wash them! Hahaha. Revenge.
Bahahaha! That would be epic!
I couldn't find my camera, and the stupid ice maker apparently quit working months ago, sooo I politely beat the shit out of him with my pregnancy pillow, and told him if he didn't get the lead out the next thing I was going after was the ps3. He got up. Lol.
If i were you find his password so.you can have access to his facebook from your cellphone to keep an eye on him. And convos he has itll showup in his messages. Iknow it sounds shady but its to protectyour future.
@lalalorree I think any social networking type thing is bad for relationships. But, of course we can't just blame that, the guys play a role in it to. I've always known all of his passwords, that's why I never thought twice about him doing something like that. I mean, at any point, I could've logged into is stuff and read everything, but instead he just leaves it logged in. I don't know what made him think it was okay to do something like that, but I think he learned his lesson. As far as keeping an eye on him now, he deleted his Facebook and Yahoo accounts, so now he's never on the PC, he just plays the PS3.
I think he just got tempted because he is a man after all but I don't think he's gonna go ahead and cheat on you.I would just emphasize how much you've been hurt without yelling or screaming. Just be really sweet, make him feel so guilty:) I would even sneak in my beliefs about cheating. You know I think its the right punisment to be stoned to death if you're an adulterer? Hahaha all joke aside I think the worst thing you could do to a person is cheating . Soooo hurtfull.
Attention part , you should talk to him about how you feel. He might not be aware what he's doing. Men need to be trained like little puppies:)