Fiance's ex...

edited June 2011 in Babies
So.. My fiance's ex wife is CRAZY! She is OBSESSED with our 6 week old son! They have an 8yr old daughter together so he has to have contact with her! She told his mom when I was 21 weeks pregnant (after we found out it was a boy) that she was jealous she always thought they would give their daughter a sibling... Really? Me and him have been together for over 2 years.. And so have her and her bf.. You think she would realize that wasn't going to happen... Well whenever she comes over to drop off their daughter or we are somewhere she is.. She always wants to be right by our son.. And I just went and dropped their daughter off at her work so she could take her to VBS tonight and she ran past HER daughter to OUR son! WTF??? She is really starting to remind me of the baby snatchers you see on TV.. Which if she even tries that she WILL regret it.. She had this fantasy world that her and my fiance had Gage and not me and him.. She changed the name of her face book folder after we said something but she had pictures of their daughter and our son in a folder labeled "my baby" and also a pic of my fiance, son, and their daughter.. Alot of ppl thought he was hers... Idk what her problem is.. But she makes me furious!!
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  • Super weird
  • Ummm... psycho! I would sleep with one eye open if I were you!
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  • I would not let her touch my child....EVER! Creepy woman!
  • Wtf???

    You need to keep your distance and limit her access to your son. How did she get pictures of him? Weirdo!
  • Not that either!... nevermind...
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    It sounds like that that bitch is psycho...watch her whenever she comes around bc it seems like she really wants your baby
  • @babynumbersix How about the pirate? He's got one eye open! Lol! :ar!
  • :-j .. works for me!
  • OMG! It would drive me insane! Is there any way you can avoid seeing her? Maybe you could take your son to a store when you know she is coming to pick up her daughter? Or maybe you could call your mom to come over and go for a walk together? I am hoping you can find a solution, share it with your bf. Hugs.
  • Lunatic!! Yep I'd keep her away from my son too. I feel bad for the daughter. Is she getting neglected by mom? Maybe you can have her around more & show her she's just as special. Poor kid
  • SShoot! I tried to put the pirate face and that's what I got!
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  • Wow! Is there any way to bring this to the attention of her boyfriend? I think he would def think that was weird!
  • Nutty!!!! My husbands baby mama is a nut too, along with her mother and I told my husband if either one of them tried to put a hand on or even talk to my son they would see a crazy woman.
  • @blueberrysmom very creepy.. I mean its HER fault they aren't together... She cheated on him while he was in iraq..

    @booface I think she got them from facebook.. His daughter has a cell phone she can use when she is here so I think she may have sent get one or two. She is a proud big sister

    @tootie08 I watch her closely..

    @girlfromminsk unfortunatly we live an hour away from any of my family.. But I may start taking him to his crib when she comes over...

    @one5one I always try to make sure she feels special! Her mom takes her to her grandmas alot so she can go out with friends on her days off and annoys us wondering when we will come get her...

    @bellareust we just talked about it.. He agrees with me that she is being creepy!!

    @baybee1aug10 yeah she tries to do anything to my son either me or my fiance will kill her! I am normally calm but not if that happens!


    I think one of her problems is she wanted a boy.. also she wanted another baby but he told her no... And her new boyfriend went through a still birth and she has an incompetent cervix (daughter was born at 25w) so he doesn't want to take a chance of losing another baby...
  • @august22baby I've thought about it.. She touches my son and I will!
  • I'm sad for every1 who deals with her. Ladies syco!! Have you ever sought custody of the girl? I'm sure shed have a better life with you then the loon. :)
  • @one5one no right now its joint custody.. Yeah she would.. She doesn't even buy her stuff if she gets stuff over there its bc her grandma and aunt buy it.. Her aunt only works a few hours a day and like 3 days a week (she has a mental handicap.. Extremely sweet girl) and spends all her money on getting her clothes and toys. His ex's family said they are happy he is with me and not her.
  • Well im sure the girls having an ok time with grandma & aunt & that she's getting everything she needs. When she gets older she'll not like her mom too much I'm betting. So just let her know you all are there. For her. She may even leave home cuz of her mom.
  • Can we say restraining order
  • @one5one we are thinking when she gets to the age she can choose then she'll be over here more.. It kinda worries me she told me her mom lets her go outside alone while she does stuff inside... They live near a very busy main road...
  • What a weirdo! Can we say psych evaluation!
  • @nmartinez79 she needs one for sure!
  • That's so dangerous!! At 8 I think if you talk to her about safety & about not going with strangers, she'll understand & listen. Next time she's over talk to her bout the outside issue. Id hate to hear that she's missing or hit by a car. :(
  • @one5one o had a talk with her about out not long ago bc she didn't know why I wouldn't let her go outside alone.. We live on a nice neighborhood but I dont trust anyone when it comes to hers and my sons safety
  • Good that sweet lil girl needs guidance. I wish her & your family luck. I hope she's not influenced wrongly by her moms ignorant actions.
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