Bedrest...ugh!

edited June 2011 in Pregnant
Hey girls..I'm new around here but preggly is def keeping me occupided lately...I am 30w 4d and have been on bedrest for preterm labor for almost 3.5 weeks now...we have a 5yr old as well (which I spent 16 weeks on b.r.) but the 2nd prgnancy it is soooo much harder with another child...I have slight ocd..and wonder somedays if it not molre stressful to sit here! Lol I'm 2-3cm dialated and 50% effaced...and in soooo much pain! Anyone else in a similar situation? Oh not to mention we moved last nov to northern ohio from sw fl and I know NO one here so my whole support system is 1500 miles away! :-( sorry so long just tired fusterated and want to cry! Thanks girls!

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  • I was in the same situation!
    I was put on bed rest at 24 weeks because I was dilated 3cm and had preterm contractions.
    At 34 weeks I was dilated 4cm and had preterm contractions again.
    I was supposed to be on bed rest, but I could never keep myself in bed. haha.
    I ended up going to a dr apt when I was 36 weeks and got sent to the hospital because I was contracting and didn't feel them but they came up on the monitor and I was dilated 6cm.
    I had her that night.
    4 weeks early, happy and healthy. :-)
    As far as the bed rest thing goes, minimal walking around and a little bit of cleaning just nothing heavy and not a lot was fine for me. Didn't cause any major problems. I would have gone insane had I not broken the rules of bed rest haha.
  • that stinks. I am in ohio as well. but central.
    with my first i was on restriction @ 14 wks and bed rest at 28 wks.
    with my second i was on bed rest @ 22 wks. I feel your pain
    my oldest two are 15 months apart so with a little girl who was learning to run and walk and as mobile as can be it was horrible!!!
    This time around i haven't been on bed rest as of yet *knock on wood!* so far so good @ 29 wks!
    if you feel comfortable telling me whereabouts you are then maybe i could help a little?
  • I'm in central IL
    It was my first pregnancy, but I was always at home by myself with my BF working. So, even if I wanted to follow bed rest rules, it was hard if I wanted to eat or get something to do haha.
    I hope the pain you're in right now goes down! Did they tell you anything that you could take to help with it?
  • edited June 2011
    @2ndmiricaleontheway I'm 30wks4days and on bedrest I was bedrest since 16wks I started having preterm labor n had to have a cerclage to stitch my cervix closed at 37wks I'm having it removed I can't wait til Aug.vome
  • Thanks girls..@survivormommie3 we are in the sandusky area...but to beat this whole situation (the short version.) I was seeing an ob in norwalk who everyone claimed he was the best! (Since we just moved and I found ou I was prggo) and he sent me home 4x's w a shot of turb and no meds for home...I even told the l&d nurse listen this is not my first rodeo..lol and finnaly when he contrations kept comming the ob nurse from my ins sent me to the clev clinic (an hr + ) away from home! I ended up admitted for 9 days trying to stop the laor and am now seeing a fetal med doc there and am going to have to mke it to fairview when in labor again! Grrrr
  • @blackbarbie10 ur due aug 13th then to? That's cool same dd...I'm ss uve been on b.r. so long is it ur first? It is sooo boring! I have "cheated" a bit and maybe that's why I'm still in pain? Lol goodluck to u do u know wa ur having?
  • oh, well poo. lol. we are about 30 miles from columbus.
    when pregnant with my second I was transfered from here up to columbus... which driving wise (we all know ohio is best known for the insane amount of traffic lights and stupid traffic patterns) is about 1 hr. so every appointment, ultra sound, complication, and non stress test we have to arrange for the minimum of half of our day occupied AND arrangements for our kids to be cared for since our office doesnt allow children!!!! (if that's what it resorts to, then tooooo bad) I hate the drive.
    That completely sucks. not that you are very close, but riverside is a fabulous hospital. i just dont know the distance. im assuming close to 100 miles, give or take.
  • I'm due Aug.20th yes my first dats y I'm di excited Yes it Is boring a cheat every once n a while too lol I'm having a girl @2ndmiricaleontheway
  • @surviormommie3 we are 57miles from fairview (subsidary sp? Of clv clinc) and the have a specialty ob ward and a level 3 nicu...and I love the new doc if u've associated w clv clinc u may know him Dr. Saleah.(lil man from turkey) he is awesome! But its a point w the ol pos doc I coulda stayed a barely a fingertip dialated if he had done what he was supposed to do! And I understand the kids thing thx God my mil is a snow bird but she drives 2.5 hrs one way to babysit when I have my appts cuz we don't know n e one! @blackbarbie 10 congrats we are haing a gril too!
  • @2ndmiricaleontheway Thanks it'd girl season I think I have a cousin who had a girl Today 2cousins next month den me n Aug. 4 girls n my family lol
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