Baby Shower Issues

edited June 2011 in Pregnant
My sister is giving me a baby shower and the rest of my family is mad. My Mom is so mad that my sister is planning my shower and is being impossible over everything. I asked my mom who she wanted to come to the shower and she refused to give me any information. I told my mom since this is the first time my sister is around for my pregnancy she want to do the shower which shouldn't be a big deal. My sis and and already talked about a theme and who I wanted to invite. But now my mom and other sister and being so impossible. I know when the shower comes next month they are gonna complain the whole time during the shower(that's just the way they are). They are making not even want to have a shower because I know its just gonna be so much drama. My sister has tried to include them but they are seriously pouting over it. Would I be in the wrong to tell them to either get over it and not say anything at the shower or don't come.

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  • I don't get it. What's their problem?
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  • Their problem is that my one sister asked me first if she could do my shower and I told her that was fine. They only want things their way. They don't like anything my sister has planned even though she has tried to include them in this. It's just a power thing. My family honesty is a bunch of whiners. It's so stressful trying to deal with this! I told them I don't care anymore who comes.
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  • i would tell them to get over it! and if they dont like it they dont have to come! dont let them ruin it for you hun!!
  • They are being selfish. I would definitely tell them to suck it up & not ruin your day or to not even bother showing up. It's childish for them to be that way, its not about them its about you & baby. Good luck hun ;)
  • & you're all family, I don't see what the big issue is :/ maybe hall need to sit down all together & have a talk about what's going on & let them know how you feel
  • Thank you everyone!! I'm glad I'm not just over reacting on this.
    @clope18...I have done that with prior stuff and my family just doesn't care. They are kinda the impossible to deal with. Otherwise I would say something. Thanks though.
  • I agree, if they don't like it they can stay home...we have too much drama with people also so I'm not having a shower, esp from the mil...at least she lives far away :) feel free to tell them you don't want to them to be unhappy with the shower so they can just stay home by their immature selves :)
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