Tough decision.. Plz help!
Im 22 n nine wks prego with my first child, and its my bfs 4th. We been together for a yr n 7 months now and are in love. I wasnt tryin to get prego but he really wanted me to have his baby n he finally got his wish. I was upset and cried the whole day after finding out i was prego because i had plans to finish school first then marrying b4 havin kids, but he was excited. Neither one of us r financially stable, i have a pt job and he dont have one at all! He's on child support for his other three and his 2 baby momma's hate me and him n they dont kno im prego yet >:p.. I thought about abortion but im so against it and couldnt do it so of course im keepn my first unborn blessing and now im super excited :X The thing is... my parents want me to marry him but dont really kno him, but r against having kids out of wed lock but they feel that would b the right thing to do and i feel the same. But its just too many negatives.. 1. He has three kids ages 3,3 & 2.. 2. He dont have a job and not finacially stable but he has a place for us to live.. 3. Its going to b CRAZY drama with his other baby mommas "They like to fight and buss car windows".. 4. I dont think he's ready for marriage evn tho he say he is 5. I honestly kno i can/deserve a better man.. But at the same time i always said the man i have a child with i will marry. What do u ladies think? What would u do?
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Dnt let others force you into a huge choice like this bc you and your child are the only ones who will have to deal with the consequences.
And like @fate said the child will be considered out of wedlock bc you already conceived, so I say complete your goals push and encourage him to do something with himself then think about marriage.
Remember that once you guys are married those women will be in your life forever