feeling ugly, fiance,and pornography

jalem

I'm 33 weeks pregnant and I feel ugly... my fiance isn't and has never been the open sensitive sort he's rarely told me I'm beautiful or done a lot of pda and I am usually fine with it but now my crazy.hormones are.kicking in and I feel like all of the pregnant women I know bd is all into the pregnancy and calling them.beautiful and touching their belly and talking to the baby and line doesn't... he says he feels weird like why should he when he tries she stops moving ... hes never felt her move BTW... and what's worse is now that I'm feeling ugly him hacking off is making me feel worse... and its not like we have a nonexistant sex life... but its slow because he feels weird about it too... but my emotions are so crazy that even when. We have sex I feel ugly like I actually cry because j think that he will only do doggy it spooning because he thinks I'm ugly and doesn't want to look at me... when i know that those are his fav and alwats has b)een... im soooo over beuung pregnant already

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jalem

@lil_buggie_3 I know it will but it sucks because i have never felt ugly b4... I know he lives me but my mind just goes crazy with stupid thoughts andthen when I talk to him he says to stop thinking stupidly and logically it makes sense

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ChelseaMarie

Im 34 weeks and feel pretty much the same way I feel fat and like sex to him must be horrible because we can only do it doggy and there isn't much action on my part.

jalem

@lil_buggie_3 I did that yesterday got all prettied up in my wedding dress did my hair and makeup and sat on the couch for a few hours...
@chelseamarie even doing it doggy I try to do as much as possible but I hate that u can't see his face its like what if I turn around and his face is that of.being bored.

ladicapo

Even though we have sex almost every day sometimes more then once a day I still get pissed about the jerking off..its like I'd rather have sex then play with myself so wtff?!?

jalem

@ladicapo I don't mind it so much... but I would much rather participate but I understand why he does it... its like his own time.. the one thing left that is his... but right now I'm like u just said I feel ugly then you go and watch some skinny white birch bend in ways I have never been able to while jacking off and you expect me to not hate myself... yeah

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I always like to think that their touch calms the baby.

lae3

im over it too.. alot of guys are weird about pregnancy and sex.. dont feel bad about the jacking off he probably did it the same before you go prego.. you just notice it now cause how you feel.. i tottaly dislike being big and prego.. i dont feel sexy at all either.. so i know how you feel girl.. just know your almost done.. your in the home streatch and this is the most uncomfortable part of pregnancy..

Fate

You're all beautiful. You all have the most amazing superpower and you don't even realize it. Screw Xray vision, super strength, and flying! We grow PEOPLE!

jalem

@ll10 i like to tell him that she's trying to keep herself a secret to him until she is born so he can experience all the joys of being a daddy all at once... but still sucks that he isn't more emotionally attached to this pregnancy... he loves his baby but i dont get none of the belly rubbing/kissing/talking/singing...
@lae3 yeah i know he jacks off regularly... and has since before we met which is why im usually perfectly fine with it its just my stupid hormones are driving me crazy and it's like when he does it my mind automatically starts asking stupid questions... like, "what is the only difference between sex with you and jacking off to porn?" and my mind will answer, "you know for a fact that he likes what he sees when he's watching porn." i dont dislike being prego just knowing that sure i only gained 16lbs so far but i still look like a blimp and was already uncomfortable with my weight before pregnancy... i want her out already...
@fate cant i just lay an egg... lol

Fate

Whether it's growing a baby or laying an egg, you still grew it inside you. Lol. Besides, I rather not have to lay on an egg, but instead feel every movement created by my stinkbug!

jalem

@fate i would much rather lay an egg my baby is a lazy baby and hardly moves around as it is so if i laid an egg i could just sleep on it all day... and hand her over to her daddy to watch when i want to go do all the fun stuff like paraglide, scuba dive, jump out of planes...

Fate

LOL. Still counts as growing a person though! :P

jalem

true... lolz @fate

lae3

ExcitedForOctober

I know exactly how you feel but like you my bf has never been the really lovey dovey seet type so I can't say I expected him to act any differently now that I'm pregnant.

VictoriaB

My husband and I used to have sex 5 times a day every day. Now that I'm pregnant, it seems like we never have sex. He says its not because I'm big, but what am I supposed to think when the bigger I get the less sex we have? We only have sex multiple times a day after we fight now (we have awesome make up sex lol) but we almost never fight.

I've also gained a lot of weight and I look horrible in my clothes. I can't afford cute maternity clothes, so I'm stuck with yoga pants and over sized t shirts. I'm also breaking out worse than ever and my hair is super dry no matter how much I condition it. It doesn't help my self esteem at all.