i cant stand MIL!!! >:(
Ok so lets begin with the first thing: I went to phoenix to visit my mom and sister since I was missing my family and all my sisters and I decided to go as a late mothers day present. Well I stayed for about 3 weeks there finally I came home for a dr visit after only to find out to both our surprise she moved in while hubby was in phoenix with me!! We both where like ok fine whatever! So I've been home about a week and a half she sleeps here whenever she just feels like it doesn't ask or anything comes whenever she wants to come! One night it was 2 am two nights ago 5 am! After waking us up she goes on with her freaking loud phone call!! Like hello hubby works a lot we just got back we need our freaking sleep!! Well ok yesterday she woke up saying she hungry asks my hubby to go eat and he says that he can't cuz we just got back from cruces where the rest of my family was and he only has enough to pay for the rent this month until his next pay check on Monday and just about a hundred to spend on us for the next few days. So she offers to take us out! Ok sounds good. She finds out she locked her keys and demands we take her to one of her bfs house who has the spare which livea an hour away!! Ok we say yes. So well she gets fed up saying we r taking forever to get dressed (while staring at me!) And so finally we r ready to leave and she gets mad says she wants to shower and get dresse. Well this point I'm hungry and craving a mcchicken so being nice hubby asks if she wants anythIng she throws a tantrum like a little kid saying she doesn't want McDonald's and than so hubby is like well we r going do u want anything? She than wants a double shot something or other I'm think really its McDonald's not starbucks!! so we come back with a regular coffee and salad she getaway mad saying we forgot her sandwich and how she is so hungry umm I believe that is food infront of u! Ok fine so she goes finishes getting dress uses my makeup toothbrush and deodorant! Eww!! Ok well we finally leave and than last minute she says she wants churches chicken! Ok we turn around and ask here what she wants and she gets grouchy saying how she is hubby's mom umm hello ur on the phone and we need u to order its our turn!!! So finally we order leave and drive the hour to said "bf" house after stopping at sonic for her again! Ok well after everything she has us drop her off at bf's town where another guy picks her up! Umm ok fine so hubby and I get back and realize with everything we r short so He asks for the rest of money to pay rent when she shows up next morning. she starts yelling going off how because of that she is going to be short and demands he asks his dad after knowing their relationship isn't like that! And so I'm getting pissed (lack of sleep + prego = grouchy me!! Yay! ) and I just tell them to both stop hubby is all surprised I yelled he stops and she than decides to get in my face and even bends down to get close because I'm sitting in a chair so I'm furious now and I stand up pissed I'm about ready to slap her!! Hubby quickly gets up and pulls me back calming me down cuz she turned her back on me and was walking to the kitchen and I'm following her who does she think she is to get in my face than what get scared and turn her back on me?!! Ok so hubby has me calmed down he is hugging me and kissing me so finally I'm calm. Well she comes in saying she is sorry how its menopause that's doing this to her and she doesn't mean to take it out on hubby and she doesn't even look at me!! Ok well hubby just looks away says its ok and continues talking to me! Ok she finally leaves hubby convinces me not to grab her stuff and throw it out like I wanted to (sadly)! Oh well I can go on and on (like how she insists on using the bathroom without closing the door or how she always shows up randomly) but I won't! Sorry I had to vent and let it out! I feel better now!
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Is she do...throat punch her!! That's wat @blueberrysmom would do!
@ChelseaMarie yeah she does I made it a rule she can't know where we r moving to let alone have a Key to our next place!! I refuse to allow it! And she thinks she is watching our baby when he comes! Lol yeah ok sure!
@one5one ha ha I have debated it!! Omg if my hubby didn't know how to calm me down I would do so much worse than change locks!! I almost did throat punch her too!! Lol lets see if she gets in my face again!! Next time ill wait till hubby isn't here! Idk how he can put up with it! He grew up without her! She was never there for him!
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@mshahir thanks yeah it is pretty gross u have no idea! I especially get frustrated when she starts talking to u well eating she doesn't wait till she is finished with her food to talk so u get a whole view of her food! That's eww! Lol ugh I can't wait to move so she stops showing up! I know that's mean since she is hubby's mom but I'm super excited!
@lae3 yeah she is weird! Like he always comes straight home and kisses me and baby hello and especially after a long day we just sit there talking! Well she getaway frustrated and always says "where is mammas kiss hello!" Lol hubby turned around and said she is the new mama now and continued kissing me! The look was priceless! And who knows what she is on?!