Mom... Fxck you!! (vent) **UPDATE** just got home from ER
As a lot of you know, my fiancé and I are staying with my mom until we can afford an apartment (hopefully next month!). I'm not asked to pay any type of rent here. Instead, we put $300 worth of food in the fridge, that my sister and her friends ate, we help keep the place clean, etc. Well, I'll be 32 weeks on Wednesday, and my mom still expects me to scrub toilets, tubs, floors, base boards, etc. I try to explain to her that I just can't do it, so she's tells me I'm using the pregnancy as an excuse. Believe me, I wish I were. Well, she'll give me this long list of things she wants done before she gets home from work. I'll do what I can, and my fiancé will come home from working all day to finish the rest. If the list isn't done, it's the end of the world. She's been telling me for the past few weeks that if her house isn't clean when she comes home that I'm not getting a baby shower.. GOOD! I didn't want one in the first place! She tells me she's not spending all this money on a baby shower when I'm slacking. DON'T! I honestly don't give a damn! I'm 100% sure I'm not going to the damn shower because that automatically means I owe her for it. There's nothing that can be done about the whole situation. It's how my mom is and will always be. I just needed to rant a little. Keep your fingers crossed that we are able to get out of here soon!
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@blueberrysmom Thank you!
@Kris100717 It'll get better eventually. It just takes time.
@RizzyChicky That's the thing, both times my mom was pregnant, she did NOTHING. And, that's info that came right from my grandma. When she was pregnant, she quit working the day she found out, and stayed at the house. She was living on her own at the time, so she didn't have anyone on her back, AND twice a week, my grandma would go over and help her clean. My mom is a very self-centered person. For example, instead of her getting up off the floor to go get a pair of scissors to finish up the grab bags for the baby shower, she makes my big pregnant ass get up. I hate to say it, but my mom can be a VERY lazy person. I understand she works, but she sits behind a desk, in the a/c, doing paperwork. It's not like she's busting ass physically, ya know?
Idk what to tell you but I'm so sorry your going through this
@whozdher My fiancé says the same thing. He can't understand how my mom of all people can treat me like this, but that's just who she is. Hopefully, things will change soon, but I'm not gonna get my hopes up. I just have to learn to deal with it.
@intri Thanks
U need out asap!
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