Need girl time/talk

superwoman27

I am a first time mom and I am in dire need of some girl time. I just moved and I know nobody here and god love my man for being amazing but sometimes a girl just needs girl talk. Being 14 weeks along makes is a little difficult to go out and meet people in a normal fashion so I figured i would reach out on here and see if I could find any other soon to be mothers who would like to make a friend and have some girl chat. no rules. nothing off limits. just some good old fashion chit chat....

MyLittleBlessing

I know how you feel! Seems like since I got prego no one wants to talk anymore. Lol although I didn't move, it feels like I did! Where are you from?

Jensensmommy15

Where are living at? I'm from Cincinnati ohio

dra765

Where did u move to? I've been in CO for yrs now n don't have too many g friends but that's bc I'm anti social lol n most girls r mean ha

Jensensmommy15

@dra765 what part of Co are you from?

dra765

I'm in Denver/Aurora idk the city limits r weird but yea

dra765

@newmomma15

Jensensmommy15

@dra765 I have always wanted to go to Denver

dra765

@newmomma15 well come on down! Lol its nice here

superwoman27

I am in San Diego, CA. I moved from San clemente so its not that far but far enough to be away from everyone. Its rather lonely most of the time.

superwoman27

being pregnant seems to almost scare everyone away. Not invited to parties or things cuz I cant drink.. not sure why being preggers changes things for so many people. its not like I changed. but whatever

ExcitedForOctober

@dra765 my bf says I'm anti social too and I feel the exact same way about girls too, I want a gay bff lol

Jensensmommy15

@dra765 I plan on it in the next few years!!

@superwoman27 its like our legs are broken cuz they think you can't do anything! Its so annoying!

superwoman27

I KNOW!! its not like we have a disease or anything we are just pregnant.... silly people. well thats why I wanted to start this just a place for some real girl time. I know we dont know each other but maybe that will make it a little easier for us to all talk about things. there will be no bias or judgement .. just openness

dra765

@ExcitedForOctober yea I get along with dudes which my hubby doesn't like...gays r the best lol best of both worlds

MyLittleBlessing

I know! People treat you like you're contageous or something! Haha so how do you like San Diego? @superwoman27

superwoman27

I get along with guys WAY better than girl always have.. all my good friends are guys. Girls are so hard to get along with ( no offense at all) I try but its hard. I have three best gay friends and they are seriously the best of the best! would die without them.

San diego is good. I lived here when I was 18 but it still feels very new. I am still getting used to the freeways and where everything is. By my old place there are two freeways and they both get you to the same place.. here there are like 17,... slightly confusing. And meeting new people is so hard is CA. Everyone sticks to themselves.

How do you like where you live? Are yall single? married?

superwoman27

I went to the doctor today to do some final testing for down syndrome for my first tri. I am officially in my second today so it was down to the last min.. BUT I did the ultrasound test and I was lucky enough to find out the sex of my baby!!! no its not a 100% thing but the lady said its about a 90% chance that I am having a GIRL!! I am so excited! Finding this out made it so real for me. and I love that I dont have to call it an IT anymore... I can say her and she ,... pretty awesome!!

Mybabe

Hey we are in the same boat!!! I moved back to my college town last week and I don't no too many people here I just know guys mainly cause that's all that's in my criminal justice major pretty much... I live like two hours away from home so I get on here to chitchat too!!!

superwoman27

Chit chat away! I love to talk ...its in my blood since im italian Haha...

myHEARTZx3

hey i'm 14 weeks too.. whens ur due date? and i totally know how u feel.. i mean i didn't move or anything but i am so cusy with my life as a mom i barely get time with my girl friends we are all in different places in our life.

superwoman27

I am due dec 27th. I get a very special xmas gift this year. How about you? have you thought about how you want to deliver?
I miss my girl friends alot ... I just feel isolated I guess.

RizzyChicky

I miss my girlfriends too! But I feel like I'm the one who has distanced herself from friends. I still get invited to parties & asked to come out, but I just feel more comfy being home or being with friends who are mommies. Lol. I've lost all interest in friends who tell me about their drunken stories or their new guy dramas :-)

superwoman27

I have no patience for drunken stories ...I didn't even when I wasn't pregnant. Im not much of a partier or drinker anyway. But something about being pregnant and knowing ur going to be a mommy makes all those little things not very interesting. I don't care about drama or who is hooking up with who or how much u drank...its not important. Being pregnant puts things in perspective. Plus hanging out with other pregnant ladies or momies is so much more fun...and real..and entertaining. Sorry if that sounds mean I have not slept in a week..silly baby is keeping me up forr some reason...

MommaMoon

Im in Lancaster, Ca. You are 4hrs away from me! Which is still far lol. It will get better, maybe your bf/hubby will meet some guys and those guys will have gfs for you to chat with! Im a first time mom too, but im doing alone. The bd kept asking me up til i was 18weeks to get an abortion. And of course im not, so he's pissed. Wants nothing to do with his child. So im doing what's good for me and the baby. I keep calling it an "it" also bc i don't know th sex yet lol. I find out next week on Wed!! Im super excited!!!

mmomma1013

I don't have many friends either. Girls I had been friends with here are a totally different level! It'd be nice to have anyone to talk to. All I have really is family. Do you have fb?

abbys_mommy

@superwoman27 I already had my little girl she's just about 3months ); time goes by to fast!!! But I do know how you feel my husband works all day so he has the car and I get stuck home all day it sucks!