Any advice on how to overcome or control insecurities?
I have suffered with insecurities my whole life. I don't know when or why they started but as far back as I can remember I have had them. I have always just shoved them under the rug the best I could as opposed to dealing with them. I know what a lucky girl I am but ONE little dumb thing can happen and I question everything and start to "push" my loved ones away. If I feel I don't have complete control I'm a freaking basket case. I should have fixed this a long time ago but I know its better late than never. I owe this to not only to myself to get this under control but to my husband as well. Any advice or literature that can be recommended would be greatly appreciated.....
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I try to count my blessings, focus on the silver lining in every cloud, and not beat myself up over the crummy days. I think it also helps to work on figuring out & avoiding triggers, as well as identify the root cause of the issue. For me, it was my mom telling me she wished I was never born & that I was more trouble than I was worth. I felt if she didn't love me, then no one could or would & I wasn't worth it. Now I know better & have the family I always dreamed of.
Good luck hun, I am always here if you need to talk.