Well noboday says "yippee!!! Im screwed in the head so I make life altering decisions with the flip of a coin that im clearly not ready for so im off to see my shrink!!" Meaning noone claimed therapy is a picnic... therapy is meant hurt. You have to get to the root of your issues and relive the pain to get answers... and psychologists don't prescribe pills. Nor are they biased, so should you find the right one, they could prove beneficial in your case... just sayin... p.s. im not knocking therapy... I have two therapists whom I love dearly!
i think what theyre trying to say is that youre mad because noone comments.. but noone comments because when all that sillyness went down, every single thing someone had to say you turned it down or already had a deflection for it. So noone has much to say.. aaalso, posting something a little more positive would have been better. posts like this make it seem like you just want attention.
@mama0811 I totally agree on what you say not all my posts get answered some of them get maybe one response and I don't sit here and cry about it I move on and look at the next post not to be rude or anything but I think some people just look for attention
@praying4our3rd You forgot #5.. Or the post is just randomly dumb..lmao I've made a few with no responses and said to myself this is a stoopid thread, no wonder I have no comments. Haha! I never get offended. I wish I had bd drama to share tho..lol being single is boring.
Look I don't want to be a bitch or anything this might come out rude to you but it's something I have been wanting to say I understand your sadness about losing your babies ok because I have also lost a child but I think you somehow need to put that aside of you and start living your life. Being stressed out an sad all the time isn't goin to take you anywhere in life it will only make things more complicated. I never comment on any of your posts because I know you will not like what I say and that's that you need help you need a therapist even if you hate going it will help you that's what they are there for I went when I lost my baby and it helped it made me realize a lt of things you are young and need to enjoy your age God maybe has a different plan for your life but you don't see it that way to end this you can either hate me or like me for what I have said but it's something I had to get of my chest
I had therapy twice in life, only a few sessions after my marriage ended but it helps. I've had a really hard childhood (foster care) kids early, lost a newborn, lost my marriage, but here I am daily still smilin. Life moves forward, I believe you get back what you give.
This site is for ttc women, pregnant women, and new moms if u aren't ttc and you just need to talk try facebook I'm not trying to be rude but u said it urself its hard enough to get people to respond when u are talking about pregly related things and all your discussions have so many responses and you are not talking about those things so really ur complaint is unwarranted
For your information I fell asleep and for another thing this post has nothing to do with me losing my babies. And the tables can be turned here too, some of you dont comment on my posts anymore because I DIDNT take YOUR advice.... Therapy may "make me a better person" thats if I could stand going, it honestly will not help if Im not going to care. Im not saying anything bad about woman who go to therapy at all, I know that it does help its just not for me. Another thing, I was ttc and was talked out of it by Pregly members and then I found out the bf stopped talking to me because I didnt conceive when he visited and I didnt want to continue trying for a while. And I dont talk on facebook alot because facebook is nothing but DRAMA which I was NOT trying to have here. I guess this post was more because alot of woman can post something important or exciting like my post about my new nephew and others post about their bds cheating....now dont get me wrong I know thats horrible of them to do and is very wrong, but 200+ comments on a post like that compared to a new baby in the world getting 18... I guess it just made me sad, and Im talking for alot of woman on Pregly that have seen this same thing and made posts about this same thing. Thats all this post was intended for, and to have a nice conversation which obviously didnt happen.
I hate therapy too. Therapy isn't for everybody.I don't know what problems you're talking about or discussion. But I haven't seen any posts from you lately. Therapy doesn't do anything. Therapy is talking. You can talk to anyone else for free. @MommyofAngels and @everyone else
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a lot of ppls posts go unanswered..
Ok goodnight...
You forgot #5.. Or the post is just randomly dumb..lmao I've made a few with no responses and said to myself this is a stoopid thread, no wonder I have no comments. Haha! I never get offended. I wish I had bd drama to share tho..lol being single is boring.