Sometimes I really hate my boyfriend!

tinalovesbaby

Im just venting, I hate talking about our issues to my friends and family because they're too judgmental and make me feel worse about the situation. I kicked my boyfriend out of my house because he was never around for anything. I lived with him but only saw him once a week if that. He'd come home at all crazy hours of the night so i decided it was time for him to go. Now he only texts me once a day with the same question "how are you feeling?". Its like if i wasn't pregnant he wouldnt bother with me at all. He never wants to see me and doesn't come to doctors appointments with me. Im so hurt right now, i know i kicked him out but he abandoned me a long time ago. It really sucks being pregnant and knowing already that you will be a single mom. This isn't what i wanted for my daughter especially since my dad wasn't part of my life either. Sorry so long but i have to get it out.

ExcitedForOctober

@tinalovesbaby Everything will be alright hun! I know it must be scary and hurts at first but later on you will move on and realize this is probably for the better. If he is not there for you he probably will not be there much for your daughter and in that case she won't miss much anyway from not having both of you guys together. I grew up w/o a father until my mom remarried and I'm glad that my mom left my dad who was really bad to her. In the beginning of my pregnancy things between me and my bf got bad and I too thought I'd be a single mom and yes it was heartbreaking but I knew I could give my baby the love they needed and knowing I would always have my baby always made me feel better.

tinalovesbaby

Thank you so much for replying that made me feel a whole lot better. You're right im probably better off and all she needs is me. It'll still hurt for a while but I gotta be strong for her. Thats probably the best advice anyone has given me lol all my family and friends ever wanna do is talk trash about him and even though he deserves it most of the time it makes me feel worse.