Question About SEX

AllyAndEmeryAllyAndEmery
edited July 2011 in Pregnant
So me and bd are not together and havent been since i got pregnant. But i have had a relationship with another guy for a few months now, at first i dident know how id feel about having sex with him cuz of the baby between us but lately my umm... libido is crazy and i want him realy realy bad, but i dont know if it would be weird.

just wondering if anyone has any advice or has been or is in a similar situation?

Comments

  • PrayingForMiraclesPrayingForMiracles
    Do what is right for you. I'm personally not in this situation but if you feel it's right go for it!
  • AllyAndEmeryAllyAndEmery
    @PrayingForMiracles thanx :)
  • brebre
    I kinda have ur situation I broke up wit my bd whn I found out I was pregnant and I met a guy a few months ago but I jus feel weird being with another guy n prego I hav friend tht did it so I see nothin wrong wit it but I jus feel disrespectful to my baby so I wnt but I feel u I get the urge to do it but whtever u feel like doin
  • PrayingForMiraclesPrayingForMiracles
    Not a prob. My only tip is make *sure* he has been tested and is free of all stds! For you and baby! :) Good luck!
  • mrsrocketfield1221mrsrocketfield1221
    I am not in this situation either but think that, of it is a steady relationship you see potential with/ feel positive about and are not just following sexual feelings, that it is fine as long as he feels ok with it and you are using protection (for std's not preventing babies obviously lol). U have not only yourself, but your unborn baby to think about too as far as health, and emotions go so really make sure that its more for emotions than the libido... :) just would hate to see something go sour and see u with someone different during this!!!

    I think its ok that you connect with another man, as long as there is a ton of respect coming from him, you may need that. Good luck!
  • AllyAndEmeryAllyAndEmery
    @bre Thats how i feel, that it would be disrespectful to her. But its so damn hard sometimes to not jump on him and naughty dance in the sheets. It was so easy in my first trimester cuz the thought of sex made me cringe but at 24w now and sex is all i want ..sweet jesus
  • AllyAndEmeryAllyAndEmery
    @mrsrocketfield1221 He has the most respect for me out of every guy iv dated since i was a teen. We have been friends for many years, just the face that we dident have sex during my hole first trimester and most of my second and he was 100% understanding about it tells me alot. Both of us are free of std's, but i still would insist on a condom, id feel unprotected sex while my baby girl was swimming around in there was a bit on the iffy side!
  • mrsrocketfield1221mrsrocketfield1221
    Well, I say that if in your heart u will be happy afterwards and enjoy it during... u will be just fine!!! I'm glad to hear that he sounds like a stand up guy and that you are respectful of your unborn!! If u think that connection will help and are ready... enjoy!!" If not I say get a toy to relieve some "sexual tention" ;)
  • AllyAndEmeryAllyAndEmery
    @mrsrocketfield1221 Thanx!, im glad to, Its been along time comming. Bd started abusing me soon as i found out i was pregnant, so it was damn hard to trust again, im still not fully back to my self from it. Big noises or someone lifting their arms or moving suddenly i just curl away or jump 4 feet in the air. Hard to believe i found a guy thats not a douche and is perfectly fine with me being pregnant not with his child, he even feels her kick and rubs my back!
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  • mrsrocketfield1221mrsrocketfield1221
    Well ur heart deserves to be happy so I'm.glad you've found a great guy!! The same happened with a friend and they are now married and he was able to adopt hwe baby... he's amazing and better than most fathers who have their own biological children! I hope its the same for u!! Just take ur time girl, :)
  • mrsrocketfield1221mrsrocketfield1221
    Ps congrats on being stronger than you know!!! That's wonderful, and keep it up!
  • lyndsay1983lyndsay1983
    If its what you want go for it but as @prayingformiracles said, make SURE hes checked out first... Then let the fun begin ;-)
  • mgrosemgrose
    If I were in that situation I would have no problem having sex with him, I would insist on a condom though....just my opinion
  • AllyAndEmeryAllyAndEmery
    Thanx girls!

    @mrsrocketfield1221 Thank you :) means alot you saying that.
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