sex and the baby daddy
Ever since I got pregnant my bf has stopped wanting to have sex. I've asked him about it and he just says he doesn't feel like it. Although i have caught him watching porn and, for lack of a better word, jacking off. It makes me feel unwanted and unloved, especially since my sex drive is crazy right now. We didn't even do it yesterday (valentine's day) and when we went to bed i asked him if there was a reason he didn't want to and he got mad and said i just dont feel like it and moved to the other side of the bed. i dont know what to do. i love him and have tried to get him in the mood but it doesnt work. any suggestions... comments... anything
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like why am I here. I feel like its already the end of my sex life. I'm only 23 its really depressing me.
Ur not alone here... the only thing I can think of is to talk to him in a setting away from the bedroom and make him speak his mind & say my mind too.but I haven't done it yet so idk if it will work for u
@mscheyla i thought that too and when i talked to him way back when i first found out i was pregnant he said he thought the baby could feel it... i told him other wise and when we went to the dr she verified it for us.
@kriss82001 i'm thinking that could be it. its just the fact that he looks at porn instead of just having sex with me hurts...
@ashes well at least your bf wanted you to be a part of it... mine waits until im sleeping and does it... it's not like he's hiding it, just he sees it as a thing for only him... when i tried telling him lets watch together he couldnt... (as in couldnt get hard)... then he just stopped and it never happened again... and it's not like im not interesting in bed... we used to try new things all the time but not any more...