need opinions !!!!!!! no idea what to do :(

jellybeaning11

Ok so bd and i have separated. I'm really stuck and have no idea what to do. I'm due in 8 weeks and need opinions if i should move home or not. I love the house that I'm in. The landlord has just put in a new kitchen and is going to do the bathroom. Its a good price for house and property but my problem is that i will just get by everyweek leaving me living from paycheck to paycheck until i have paid my car off in oct 2012.so no money for anything extra . My other option is to move home for about 6-9months so i can pay off my car and save for another place which was my original decision. I just can't seem to give up this place and won't find something that's as good as this house for this price. please help opinions would be greatly appreciated.

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sands3

I agree, if you think you will struggle, you should consider moving home. Maybe you could even find a room mate?

happymommyof2

Well can u count on your babys father to pay child support wont that help??

starrxoxo9

Is there anyway to get a cheaper car? Or have your parents help with the payments?

starrxoxo9

Is there anyway to get a cheaper car? Or have your parents help with the payments?

jellybeaning11

@starrxoxo9 yeah my mum really doesn't want me to give up this house and she said she can pay half of it but i won't accept it because she does sooo sooo much for me and i want to do things on my own ya know.

@happymommyof2 not really he got fired from work 2 weeks ago (part of the reason we split ) and hes being really nasty about giving me any money. I don't want to have to rely on him he's changed so much and only thinking about himself. Kind of don't want anything to do with him atm

@LMelanson @sands3 thanks for the advice
I know that's what i really have to do. Arrgh just don't want to leave. Guess it just ain't meant to be. I would totally get in a room mate but got no room unless they were comfortable living in the lounge lol.

Thanks ladies think its just best to move on home.

mgrose

What about a roommate?

momof22be

If u don't wanna give up the house and your mom is willing to help it sounds like a good idea since she probably thinks staying is the best for u and if she helps just till your car is paid off that would be awesome then maybe with the extra help u might be able to make bigger payments on the car to have it paid off earlier just food for thought

dra765

Y don't u let ur mom help u out? Sounds good n u can always pay her back when things get better or see if u can get like state assistance with food or something?

madilynn37

Keep the house( good cheap ones r hard to find!) & let your mom help you & when you pay off your car, make payments to your mom. Nothings better than having your own place when you have your own kids. Good luck to you