advice re my sil
My SIL has PCOS and was told after her and her hubby married (dec 2009) they should try asap because in a few years she may need a hysterectomy. He deployed in January and and came back this past December. She started clomid, had a miscarriage in January I believe and found out she was pregnant again in may I believ-this past Saturday she was 11 weeks.
1am today she went to the ER because of some bleeding (not a lot and no cramping) and at 5something am she texted me they lost the baby I spoke to her a little while ago and am hurting fot her and angry..she had a dr appointment last Tuesday and the tech there said listen that's the heartbeat and baby is kicking the machine..the dr today told her the baby died at 9 weeks!! He also said there was a cyst in her uterus he believes was pushing the baby somehow. I'm hoping it can be removed during the d&c.
I can't physically be there for her-were 1,200 miles away. I have my level 2 ultrasound tomorrow and 3 days ago we were agreeing id text her as soon as it was over...I'm not comfortable doing that now obviously, I don't want to do anything that makes it seem like nothings changed. Hubby(her brother) and I were thinking of sending her flowers on Friday (we can't afford it until then)...do you think that would be ok?
1am today she went to the ER because of some bleeding (not a lot and no cramping) and at 5something am she texted me they lost the baby I spoke to her a little while ago and am hurting fot her and angry..she had a dr appointment last Tuesday and the tech there said listen that's the heartbeat and baby is kicking the machine..the dr today told her the baby died at 9 weeks!! He also said there was a cyst in her uterus he believes was pushing the baby somehow. I'm hoping it can be removed during the d&c.
I can't physically be there for her-were 1,200 miles away. I have my level 2 ultrasound tomorrow and 3 days ago we were agreeing id text her as soon as it was over...I'm not comfortable doing that now obviously, I don't want to do anything that makes it seem like nothings changed. Hubby(her brother) and I were thinking of sending her flowers on Friday (we can't afford it until then)...do you think that would be ok?
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Thank you all so much! The plant idea is good. Once we'll figure out where we're ordering from we'll look at all their options.
Hubby just talked to her. She's doing ok after the d&c, dr said the cause was the cyst and he's removed it. That's reassuring I hope.
@survivormommie3 the dr seemed pretty miffed about it according to her but the tech was at her ob's and the dr was just on call in the er I believe...completely separate from her own.