I need help...(semi long).... Wrote the Doc an email!

edited July 2011 in Pregnant
I am just so disturbed....

Today I had and appt with a new doc because mine wasnt in the office today. Well first he comes in with two people that never introduced themselves to my husband nor me. Hell just stood there looking like idiots. He then says well how are you today and I looked at him crazy just couldnt help it and said I am fine pregnant. He then said have you had any headaches I said yes every since I fainted about two weeks ago I get headaches and dizzy when i sit and stand for too long. He said oh well that doesnt seem like a concern, and swelling i said yes but I am pregnant nothing that I would be like damn I cant walk on me feet. yes i said that.... and he sad ok wel lets take a look at you.. I get up on the bed and the others surround and my husand is like wha the hell so one of them move. he then talks about my urine and i am like what about it after it took him like 5mins to measure my uterus, supposely he couldnt find my pelvic bone and i em like you touched it serveral times you went a lil to low serveral times as well thats when my husbands stands up. Our other doc usually adjust my pants and do it. However he was like yeah you are measuring the same as last visit which was four fucking weeks ago. UGH and so he is like well in your urine there is a lot of protein and I am like word, because I barely eat meat lol im an idoit but I always associate protein with meet however he says yeah and that can be signs of pre eclampsia and i am like umm ok but my blood pressure was good, and he said yeah it has always appeared to be good, so i am like doesnt that have something to do with possibly why my uterus is measuring the same as you say. and then my husband steps and was like look when does she get another ultra sound because she has only had one and with our son she had more than just one the whole pregnancy and he was perfect. He was like we dont normally do one if there isnt a concern and i am like isnt this a concern.

he gave me a bucket i have to collect my pee and i dont know if its normal that my uterus is the same size as it was a month ago. he ran blood today said it looke fine so should i be worried. i mean my girl is moving like normal but hell why wouldnt my uterus change for over 4 weeks and i am 31weeks tomorrow???


Now i am waiting for his reply and it was long too!

Comments

  • I would call the offiice in the morning and complain. The other two people who where in the room should have introduuced themselves, my dr's office is a teaching office so there r nurses in there as well as doctors doing interstudies. They or my dr always introduces them to my husband and myself.
  • yeah same with us, but these too perves just stood there. i will be calling in the morning i just cant get over the lack of care i received today. i am so sick to my stomach. I am just ill right now because of it. I cant imagine her not growing from the last time where as i am big a pregnant now.

    i am just sick...
  • Sounds strange. First of all, they are supposed to ask if it was ok to have the residents observe. Secondly, he sounds like he doesn't know what he's talking about.
  • Try not to stress over it to much Hun. I did the same thing at 35 weeks turned out he was layin funky went in for my next appointment measured a week ahead of where I'm actually at. Maybe urs is the same issue.
  • Yeah my doc usually does that. But again he wasn't here today however I thought I was suppose to be meeting my ob which this guy was. He just rubbed me the wrong way when he first walked in. I hope he just didn't know what he was doing you guys I can't take any more stress. And I am trying not to run to the hospital right now to demand an ultra sound. However how the hell am I suppose to collect my pee when I have to work tomorrow? Was I suppose to take the day off? Or should I just old my damn pee while I am at work. He didn't even tell me what to do. I wish today just didn't happen.!
  • edited July 2011
    @adensmommy0803 I hope so, my husband is telling me not to worry and I am trying not to. Its funny because I am like I think she is bigger than my son and he was 8lbs. Ok I guess I will just go to sleep. And start peeing tomorrow. Lol ugh!
  • I honestly would have kicked people out. But I dint like male drs to begin with anyways. I just let the dr go down there and of course BD has to be there. U should def complain and ask more questions about what is exactly going on maybe someone can be more helpful than that dr. And if u didn't like him u can always say u don't want him as ur dr.
  • He was just standing in for my doc apparently however I will definitely have to double check that tomorrow. Because my next appt is with I guess the person who will be doing the birth however I looked her up and she is doing her damn residency still so that's not gonna work at all. You would think I didn't have no damn insurance. So yeah I know my doc doesn't deliver babies anymore but imma need him to make an adjustment in that because I am not being seen again by this man and this girl who ain't even done with her residency will not be catching my baby so I will def keep everyone posted too. And I just made up my mind I am not peeing in no damn bucket I have to go to work and its suppose to stay cold I can't just put that in the common fridge where peoples lunch sit that's crazy.
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