Mother too overwhelming
So I'm 25 and this is my first baby and my mothers 1st grandchild and she is being way too overwhelming for me. She has bought the crib, bassenet, swing, bouncy seat, tons of clothes (my baby dresser is full and I haven't even had the babyshower yet). I have not gotten to pick out anything really. She wants to be around all the time and tell me what "were" gonna do when he's here and so on...I am not ungrateful but this is my first child ya know? I am blessed to have someone helping me, but when I try to tell her to stop buying so much or if I try to tell her not to buy something because its too much or I want to pick it out, she brushes it off as if I'm joking. I can imagine when the baby is here she is going to want to hold the baby before my boyfriend and I don't know how to tell her that that isn't acceptable to me, without her getting offended. Anyone have a mother like this? How should I deal with this?
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