@Janet_2011, i dont think you understood what i was saying...i was just trying to say that the LEAST people could do is SHOW UP. and i get that people are effected by the economy but people are selfish with their money! they dont even care that you put YOUR time and YOUR money into trying to make it a good party for EVERYONE. and the reason that pisses me off right there is because i had a friend that rsvp'd to mine and she called the day of my shower and said that she couldnt come because she needed to go to ulta to buy her favorite mascara that she would be out of soon.. and she told me that she would make it up to me, and how convenient that she hasnt talked to me since that day! im sorry but to me using the economy as a cop out to be selfish to someone who is supposed to be someone close to you is not an excuse to me. and i wouldnt even have cared if she would have showed up empty handed and said that she only had enough money that week for the things that she needs to "survive".. it would have been nice for her to show up. i think that was the whole point of the post. not that people didnt get her anything...
I totally agree with. @baby2dec14yayy I wasn't expecting EVERYONE to give me a gift. I would have been grateful even if they gave me DECENT looking handmedowns! I know people are struggling but I just wish they could have came and not flake out after telling me that they will come then acting shady and not talking to me afterwards! If I don't go I make it known ahead of time to them and I at least get them a little something! If I made the effort to invite them they should make the effort to come or tell me no with a decent excuse!
@baby2dec14yayy exact point of this post! You said it perfectly!!!! Like I told her my bby would've gotta everything bbyshower or not...which he did...it was the point that so many ppl, even that day said they would be there but didn't show...its like saying f you and your bby...but it is what it is all 3 of mine will and always will be WELLS provided for...but on to you that female is not a friend...MASCRA RUN REALLY? THAT'S NOT AN ALL DAY EVENT! SHE COULD'VE AT LEAST LIED CTFU
@baby2dec14yayy I already apologized to @2boiz_1gurl for what i said , I got it after reading the rest of the posts , like i said, i dont know what got to me that day.
ha ha yeah i said the same thing "that takes all day?" she said "well, yeah" and she said she'd make it up but hasnt talked to me since and no i dont call her a friend anymore! lol thats been almost a year ago. and im not willing to waste my time on foolish people like that anymore!
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