THE F*CKING NERVE!!!! (Very long)
I'm going to do my best to actually edit out the conversation because it gets VERY graphic. But lately I have had a bit of trouble with john's cousins and aunt over a pic I have up on face book from a photo shoot... of my stomach and underpants >.< smdh... BUT last night John (my fiance) and I had some issues, he got waaaaayyyy too drunk for his own good and doesn't remember what he did, but he got extremely mean, and of course... what do I do so I don't punch a hole in the wall? I vent on face book to him so he can wake up in the morning and realize that he did something wrong and ask me about it like usual when he is drunk lol. I added our old inside joke from last time I got mad at him while he was in a drunken stupor, and his f*cking cousin decides that it is her place to put me down as low as possible... Here is that conversation......(with my origional thoughts of the words of choice)
Me on John's wall::
You have offically ROYALLY F*CKED yourself. And once AGAIN I am eternally pissed at you..
Her replies::
Don't let the hormones get to you Sweetheart!!! John is good people and has enough going on right now that he doesn't need all the drama. (I read that and I was like yes yes I know, I felt a little bad for being so mean! ohhh but thennn she had the NERVE)::
Just remember what you are and how he met you...you should be thankful to have HIM! (OH HELL no she did not!! Just because I was a stripper, does NOT mean I am any less of a good decent loving respectable person than she is!)
and then::
Speaking of which....if you did leave, it would be sooooooo easy to get custody! ... Just sayin!( BITCH ITS NOT LIKE YOU ARE GOING TO GET CUSTODY OF MY BABY!!
So I retaliate::
We have already discussed custody battle if we were to split up, neither of us would have any issue with that what so ever, equal rights no child should be with out both parents, thats just dumb. I'm not leaving, but JUST because he is drunk does not give him
ANY right to call me a bitch and tell me to back the f*ck off when I am trying to help him because he is sicker than sh*t and needs to get in the house rather than sleeping in the yard so I can check on him threw out the night to make sure he does DIE and kicking the dogs extremely hard off of him and grabbing them by the neck and throwing them. And then sit there an cuss at me while I am trying to do everything in my power to HELP him. It was a toss up as to if I was going to have to take him to the hospital, and all I did was try to be super sweet to him while he was sick and tired, and I got treated like I was worthless and unwanted and called names.... NOT okay (So she has a little back story on what happened that way she may be like OH okay understandable! right?)
And then I realize that what she said was actually very insulting so I added::
AND THANK YOU for insulting me! I really appreciate it! What I am? What I am is the woman he loves, the MOTHER of his child, the one who found him after his wife left him and had to rebuild him and help him heal, the one who got him to quit drinking every night, the one who is marrying him, and loving him with my whole heart, his best friend, his lover. How he met me, I can thank his wife for that actually, it doesn't matter how you meet, or where, or who is there... Its where it takes you, the journey you go on together, what you can with stand, its the adventure afterwards! I could have met him while he was rolling around in a mud pit and either way we still would have seen each other again and become best friends, and eventually in the same spot.
She didn't talk back for maybe 4 hours so I thought I got my point across and she decided to regress... I was wrong:::
Hmmmm...I know John and I think ur exaggerating quite a bit...he was probably just pissed bcause you wouldn't stop chewing his ass and he told you like it was...just like I did in my post...I just call it like I see it hun....ur a stripper and you turn tricks....oh, sorry...turned tricks. He just happened to get you knocked up...that is IF it was even John, and not one of your clients...Like I said, I just call it like it is. (WTF who is this BITCH!?!?!?! By this point I'm about ready to jump threw the computer screen and strangle her ass!)
So then my screws come loose and I blow up in a hormonal rage of probably not the most mature choice of words but oh well, I'm seeing red at this point so I really do not care. She has NO right to sit there and treat me like that!! So my retaliation:::
UM FIRST OFF you are a disrespectful shovinistic judgemental C*NT! I do nothing but try to take care of him, JUST because I danced for a living does not mean I "turned tricks" do you even know what that means? (I am and never have been a f*cking prostitute!! Its never even been a subject of question, I have f*cking morals!))
Him and I have been together for a year now, we have been best friends for nearly 2 years. We have been talking about having a baby for a long time, we tried for 8 months, he agreed to take vitamins and a suplement to help. We had plans to go to a maternity doctor and everything if it didn't work along with having me artificially inseminated with his own sperm. I never even thought about sleeping with one of my clients you ignoramus. (nuff said)
I'm glad his mom and dad and his brother and sister aren't judgemental f*cking swine such as yourself. We actually talk about my past openly, and laugh about it. You know NOTHING of this relationship, me, OR John. I can definately tell you that much! You call it like you see it but you are blind as all hell. A lot of nerve you have to treat family that way smfh.
:: Was I in the wrong to say what I said?? What would you have done??
Me on John's wall::
You have offically ROYALLY F*CKED yourself. And once AGAIN I am eternally pissed at you..
Her replies::
Don't let the hormones get to you Sweetheart!!! John is good people and has enough going on right now that he doesn't need all the drama. (I read that and I was like yes yes I know, I felt a little bad for being so mean! ohhh but thennn she had the NERVE)::
Just remember what you are and how he met you...you should be thankful to have HIM! (OH HELL no she did not!! Just because I was a stripper, does NOT mean I am any less of a good decent loving respectable person than she is!)
and then::
Speaking of which....if you did leave, it would be sooooooo easy to get custody! ... Just sayin!( BITCH ITS NOT LIKE YOU ARE GOING TO GET CUSTODY OF MY BABY!!
So I retaliate::
We have already discussed custody battle if we were to split up, neither of us would have any issue with that what so ever, equal rights no child should be with out both parents, thats just dumb. I'm not leaving, but JUST because he is drunk does not give him
ANY right to call me a bitch and tell me to back the f*ck off when I am trying to help him because he is sicker than sh*t and needs to get in the house rather than sleeping in the yard so I can check on him threw out the night to make sure he does DIE and kicking the dogs extremely hard off of him and grabbing them by the neck and throwing them. And then sit there an cuss at me while I am trying to do everything in my power to HELP him. It was a toss up as to if I was going to have to take him to the hospital, and all I did was try to be super sweet to him while he was sick and tired, and I got treated like I was worthless and unwanted and called names.... NOT okay (So she has a little back story on what happened that way she may be like OH okay understandable! right?)
And then I realize that what she said was actually very insulting so I added::
AND THANK YOU for insulting me! I really appreciate it! What I am? What I am is the woman he loves, the MOTHER of his child, the one who found him after his wife left him and had to rebuild him and help him heal, the one who got him to quit drinking every night, the one who is marrying him, and loving him with my whole heart, his best friend, his lover. How he met me, I can thank his wife for that actually, it doesn't matter how you meet, or where, or who is there... Its where it takes you, the journey you go on together, what you can with stand, its the adventure afterwards! I could have met him while he was rolling around in a mud pit and either way we still would have seen each other again and become best friends, and eventually in the same spot.
She didn't talk back for maybe 4 hours so I thought I got my point across and she decided to regress... I was wrong:::
Hmmmm...I know John and I think ur exaggerating quite a bit...he was probably just pissed bcause you wouldn't stop chewing his ass and he told you like it was...just like I did in my post...I just call it like I see it hun....ur a stripper and you turn tricks....oh, sorry...turned tricks. He just happened to get you knocked up...that is IF it was even John, and not one of your clients...Like I said, I just call it like it is. (WTF who is this BITCH!?!?!?! By this point I'm about ready to jump threw the computer screen and strangle her ass!)
So then my screws come loose and I blow up in a hormonal rage of probably not the most mature choice of words but oh well, I'm seeing red at this point so I really do not care. She has NO right to sit there and treat me like that!! So my retaliation:::
UM FIRST OFF you are a disrespectful shovinistic judgemental C*NT! I do nothing but try to take care of him, JUST because I danced for a living does not mean I "turned tricks" do you even know what that means? (I am and never have been a f*cking prostitute!! Its never even been a subject of question, I have f*cking morals!))
Him and I have been together for a year now, we have been best friends for nearly 2 years. We have been talking about having a baby for a long time, we tried for 8 months, he agreed to take vitamins and a suplement to help. We had plans to go to a maternity doctor and everything if it didn't work along with having me artificially inseminated with his own sperm. I never even thought about sleeping with one of my clients you ignoramus. (nuff said)
I'm glad his mom and dad and his brother and sister aren't judgemental f*cking swine such as yourself. We actually talk about my past openly, and laugh about it. You know NOTHING of this relationship, me, OR John. I can definately tell you that much! You call it like you see it but you are blind as all hell. A lot of nerve you have to treat family that way smfh.
:: Was I in the wrong to say what I said?? What would you have done??
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Also.. yall got way too much being said on FB. You do realize that EVERYONE can read that.
And pleaded tell me why are you explaining yourself to her?
Give that bitch the gas face... And keep it pushing. She's way to up in your business... But yours allowing her to be discussing all this with her
She's a piece of work