preglies opinion please :) long!
I put this under relationships because even though its not your typical one, its still some kind of relationship.
Hubby and I are very friendly with Sarah the girl who works at the 7-11 a few blocks away. It goes beyond the usual small talk when either of us go in..without going into details right now about my oldest, Sarah has really gone above and beyond. She texts me when she sees her, she'll tell my daughter to go home (in a nice way) when she sees her and its late. A few weeks ago she noticed fresh "cuts" on her arms and told me. She knows what's going on and what we deal with. I like Sarah a lot, I think she's really nice not in a phoney way, she really looks out for us.
A couple months ago, hubbys cousin Dan came for a visit..made a complaint or two about girl problems so we said hey Sarahs great! He didn't seem interested no biggie. A month ago he came down and changed his mind. He stayed for 2 friggin weeks lol I think they're still in the getting to know you/fooling around friend phase..I tell him I don't want to hear about it because I have to look her in the face and id rather NOT know anything intimate.
Everything seems fine and dandy until Dan tells hubby Sarah is on probation/parole. Being nosey and curious hubby looks it up and finds out she was in jail for robbery..don't remember the level but it had something to do with another person being present etc. Honestly? I don't care much..I didn't know her or her life then(it said she did 4 yrs and got out 2009)..so here's the advice part. I told my husband its not our business to tell hers, even to his cousin. Dan is here this weekend and mentioned meeting another girl closer to where he lives (we're about an hour from him)..to mt husband he mentioned its bothering him Sarah wont tell him what her crime was. I said id ask you ladies your opinion..
Should hubby tell him or point him in the direction(its public record) or should he keep quiet?
Hubby and I are very friendly with Sarah the girl who works at the 7-11 a few blocks away. It goes beyond the usual small talk when either of us go in..without going into details right now about my oldest, Sarah has really gone above and beyond. She texts me when she sees her, she'll tell my daughter to go home (in a nice way) when she sees her and its late. A few weeks ago she noticed fresh "cuts" on her arms and told me. She knows what's going on and what we deal with. I like Sarah a lot, I think she's really nice not in a phoney way, she really looks out for us.
A couple months ago, hubbys cousin Dan came for a visit..made a complaint or two about girl problems so we said hey Sarahs great! He didn't seem interested no biggie. A month ago he came down and changed his mind. He stayed for 2 friggin weeks lol I think they're still in the getting to know you/fooling around friend phase..I tell him I don't want to hear about it because I have to look her in the face and id rather NOT know anything intimate.
Everything seems fine and dandy until Dan tells hubby Sarah is on probation/parole. Being nosey and curious hubby looks it up and finds out she was in jail for robbery..don't remember the level but it had something to do with another person being present etc. Honestly? I don't care much..I didn't know her or her life then(it said she did 4 yrs and got out 2009)..so here's the advice part. I told my husband its not our business to tell hers, even to his cousin. Dan is here this weekend and mentioned meeting another girl closer to where he lives (we're about an hour from him)..to mt husband he mentioned its bothering him Sarah wont tell him what her crime was. I said id ask you ladies your opinion..
Should hubby tell him or point him in the direction(its public record) or should he keep quiet?
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