first time mommy scared of l&d

edited July 2011 in Giving birth
Hi ladies! I'm a first time mom and expecting twin girls! They will be inducing me on August 1st. Now that its only a week away I'm freaking out on wat to expect. I want to have an all natural birth. Is that expecting too much for the first time and with two. Any advice? Need help calming nerves!

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  • My mom had an all natural birth with twins! If you think you can do it then go for it! Good luck :-)
  • sorry ive never had twins. But good luck.
  • I've never had twins, but I will say those pitocin contractions hurt! Don't be afraid to get the epi if the pain is too much. Try not to stress or be nervous. Being relaxed will help things move faster and easier. Congrats and good luck!
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  • Thanks ladies! I think just not knowing wat to expect as far as pain is running my brain
  • @mama_kat I actually have to have an IV just in case any emergencies arrive especially after babyA is born so that's helpful just in case I can't take it
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  • Its not easy but it is possible....I'm a big weinie when it comes to pain but I was able to have an all natural birth with my son!
  • @Rossbabies IM SCARED TOO! I am due on the 30th (changed my dd from the 3rd) and I am getting increasingly nervous. I had a breakdown yesterday morning and my boyfriend was like whats wrong? I said IM SCARED! lmao (dam hormones) I told him I wish I could just throw her up. And thats when he told me what will be my motto the whole time im in the hospital.

    He said, "Babe women have babies everyday, and they are fine. You are strong. You will be okay."

    Good luck mama!
  • @due8311 aww that's sweet. My bf just said man I know that's going to hurt I might have to close my eyes... lol... wat a goof... I'm sure we will b fine and we are just think into it to much. Like he said women have babies everyday! But I'm still scared... lol!
  • @everyone thanks for ur comfort! That's y I love this place! And good luck to you all!
  • @Rossbabies yeah even tho he gave me good advice, I still am scared too girl.

    This morning he tried to have sex and even tho I wanted to I told him no, I said "this can induce me, I don't wanna do it!"
    I'm such a scaredy cat. But realistically, if it was that bad nobody would have more than one kid. We should be okay, not to mention WE AIN'T GOT NOT CHOICE! :)
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