NEEDS MAJOR ADVICE pls

sopheebaybee143

Ok soo we don't have a dishwasher. I live wit 2guys bd &&our friend. Is it that hard to rinse ur dish off before placing it in sink?! I mean ewww caked on old food is gross &&they wonder where or why bugs come! Seriously?! Wish I knew a nice way to tell em but I'm just too annoyed to handle it civil. Next is he has a lil girl 2yrs old who Sophia just adores however I'm noticing some her toys gone....like isn't it the parents job to return toys if u borrow them &&go to ur room? Idk how to handle this. She got a bunch of new toys for Herr bday &&don't wana lose them beforeshe has the chance to learn how they work. Need of major advice!

dec10

Put them away so it wont go missing

Janet_2011

Buy paper plates .. it will save you the trouble.

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The dish thing... I have no advice on I have the same problem and numerous people have tried to break me of this habit. Its impossible. The girl, kids are kids. They will play with whatever toy is available. Maybe mark her toys and tell him and her that if it has a purple dot it needs to come back.

lyndsay1983

Buy HIM some paper plates and get a toy box, write on it in HUGE letters your daughters name... Padlock it... ok im gonna stop now coz ill get carried away... Whenever my brothers 5 yr old comes to stay with us bits of my 6 yr olds clothes go walkies :-/

sopheebaybee143

Thanks ladies. Think my OCD wont let mee have roommates lol &&the dish thing is gross wen its not ur food smh

mrs_shu

Stop washing his dish. I'm serious. Make an announcement everyone has to wash their own plate/bowl and stick with it. If he's not a complete idiot he'll catch on quick when its meal time and his plate is nasty.
My peeve is when people don't scrape the food into the garbage so its all in the damn sink
Marking your daughters toys is a good idea

stephforever89

I would hide the dishes just to be butt. Lol or take out 3 plates 3 bowls 3forks 3spoon 3 knives 3cups and hide the rest.

blueberrysmom

@stephforever My bff did just that. There were three of them so she left out exactly three of everything cuz she was sick of doing dishes and cleaning up after them. It worked

kalasthename

write her name on her toys...i had to do that with my son when my brother's baby's mom and daughter lived with me...everything of his would disappear until i started writing his name on everything..

mommy2bof_1

Well the dishes thing I always ask my boyfriend nicely when ii notice he is going to put a dish n the sink n if he asks y I get a lil mean n say b/c I wash dishes n it makes it alot easier b/c then the food isn't stuck on the plate n also I don't do bugs ill freak out n on the toys just ask him has he seen ... the certain toys n then ask can u plz return them b/c u want ur daughter to b able to use them as well but u don't mind his lil girl playing w/ them or anything

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