I WISH THEY COULD ALL SHUT UP & LISTEN!!!!!!! (NOT PREGNACY RELATED)

WARNING: this might be long lol

i dont care if anyone reads or not i just need to vent !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


OMG so my family is having issues its toooo long to explain it all, but long story short: My Grandma has Alzheimers and is in a nursing home......My mother was appointed her power of attorney for finances, and my cousin was appointed to be the power of attorney for healthcare.......my family resides in 2 "teams" Sad and pathetically enough yes "TEAMS" one is my aunts team that is money hungry and hated my mom for my Grandma picking her to be her POA (power of attorney) while she was still in sound mind (or else it wouldve never been valid) well anyways theyve been harassing my mother and what not about it (because Grandma has some money put away and owns a house in Mexico) to the point where my mom is stressed and what not and even got an attempted "beat down" from my aunt....so my mom gave up her POA and shits still getting worse!!!!! My cousin whose the daughter of the money hungry biatch is ofcourse residing to them and is making my moms life hell to the point where they started brain washing my Grandma and convinced her my mom was spending her money and selling her shit (LIES) so my Grandma said she didnt want to c my mom-----my mom got banned to visit her----(last week) now my mom is depressed :(.......All this mean while I was trying to hold a "family reunion" but now theyre bashing me for it!!! WTF now they have restricted visits and no one is allowed to take Grandma out :( WTF I have tried not to get involved in this shit drama with all my aunts but its becoming personal and the cousin dont know all the story ofcourse the r only told the one side......it sucks becasue this is the only family i have :( I mean besides hubbys family but it aint the same......All i wanted was a day for my Grandma to c her family united....atleast the cousins and take pics bc we dnt know how long shell be around, her health is deteriorating......Oh and when i went to visit her yesterday she kept asking me where my mom was and y she hasnt came? I lied and told her she was at the doctors and she couldnt come and my Grandma started crying so much that to calm her i had to call my mom to talk to her :*( I know she was brain washed...my mom is the only one who did much for granny even when she was healthy and sane, shes one of the ones that lived farthest from her and she still managed to take her out and vist her when she lived on her own and all the other biatches who lived like a block away never did shit for her and now all of a sudden shes mommy dearest to them!?!?!?!? My doesnt care about the money if she did she wouldnt give up her POA but OMG myheart hurts theres so much more to this but i just needed to vent a bit!! I still dont feel better but atleast im letting it out

Comments

  • OH my! What awful people they are! Ugh they sounds just like my Papas family (he married into our family) They never once did anything to help him while he was alive. Never spent time with him ect... But the day he was laid to rest they thought they could just walk right in to my GG's (great grandmas) House and take whatever they wanted because it belonged to them! UGH I hate people that are money hungry. Just remember your grandma loves you, and your momma... Try and see if the nursing home will left the ban against your momma.. UGH **HUGS*** My heart goes out to you guys! People can be soo cruel!
  • I'm soo sorry gramma is going thru this. I dint know how to help. Money makes people do evil things!
  • @soontohavethree MY MOM HAS BEEN SO PASSIVE WITH THIS SITUATION AND I TOLD HER SHE BETTER GET HERSELF A LAWYER!! As much as their false accusations go they might even take it as far as putting my mom in jail!! Thay have gone as far as u can only visit her in the open (cafeteria) and whatever othe dumb rules but i figure if they make rules they should apply to everyone!! My aunt (the money hungry lady) called her the day before they actually banned my mom and cussed her out and made a death threat to her!! [-X No effin way! And i know that they r planning something i just know it!! My mom is getting a lawyer and will be meeting tomorrow! =D>
  • oh and thanks for reading lol
  • Well I hope your mom gets a good lawyer!
  • Omg im sorry ur family is acting like a biotch if ur granny wants to see your momma why don't you tell someone? It is deff. Unfair but I have seen it happen too. No one cares about a family member oh but when they r dying or sick not even dead they run after the money and then start trying to be the "providers" smh
  • Its a shame what money turns people into. Disgusting really. ive seen it happen this way so many times. Why cant family/friends just enjoy what little time they jave left with their loved one, and once that loved one passes just enjoy the memory instead of tarnishing it by fighting over the.deceased members personal belonging or money
  • You're poor Grandma!! Breaks my heart I love my remaining grandparents, I know it would kill them to see their family fighting for money. I hope thing get better...
  • Omg u guys im in tears! I feel for my mom bc shes depressed and well yeah i cant even imagine being told u cnt c ur mom bc u might "hurt" her its just a ugly situation n i feel so helpless! I dunno what to advise her i jst told her to save all those nasty txt and record in a book the phone calls she gets to help her case atleast shes not alone my uncle and 3 aunts r trying to help her....btw my grandma has 11offsprings! 4are on my moms "team" and 4 are on the money hungry side theres one who is coming from Mexico this week and i think hes on team money hungry and the other one is just neutral-----i hope this doesnt turn ugly bc im too upset now to just sit here and hear these things i wish i lived closer to visit as often as i would like....not too far (50mins) but we only use one car to drive in and hubby works
  • I hate when people are so selfish I'm sorry about your aunt she needs to realize what's best for your poor grandmother. I hope things change for the sake of your grandma.
  • edited August 2011
    This is how people are they come out of the woodwork to feed on the weak. They did it to my grandma. My uncle tried to sell the house we lived in because my grandma lived there and helped my mom pay the mortgage. I think its better to chose someone outside of the family to handle money stuff. Some of them didn't even go to her funeral.
  • now theres fmaily drama on my fb bc i made the event on fb for the family reunion omg i guess not even the cousins are willing to put our parents bs aside .....FUCK i just knew this was impossible all i wanted was to have some family pics and spend time with my Granny and i guess thats too much to ask for.....now i have a (male) cousin just trying to rip my head off tryin to pin shit on me about y i want this party!!! omg i feel like i have no family.....i kinda dont since all i know is my moms side of the family b-( i guess ill be next on their hatred hit list and trust me my family does get physical......now i have to make sure hubby comes with to visit my Granny...
  • your family sounds like my family!!!
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