Its not that serious. Porn is just the same thing we basically all do, just with different faces. Everyone has sex. Now if he watchin some weird fetish stuff then I would be worried. My man even told me he went on some site the other day cuz it hurts for me to have sex. I love that he was that considerate to take care of himself rather than pest me and make me feel bd for not bein able to do it for him. Id much rather he watch some random ppl on the screen, then go out and get the real thing. I also feel is a sign of respect. He's home watchin it it private cuz he knows it bothers you. Iono I just feel that no one has the right to tell a man he can't watch porn. Your gonn put so much pressure on them that their gonn wnt to go out and find someone who'll except them for who they are. I'm just sayin
My husband was watching porn before I got pregnant, and he's not going to stop, so it's no big deal to me. He's actually watched it on the computer with me next to him. I don't get offended, because it's just like watching anything else. We have nothing to hide from one another.
My fiance was the manager at a porn store. It's actually where we met. On Valentine's Day. I was single and getting myself a toy with a friend.
Some days he would come home and be so burnt out from being around porn all day he wouldn't want to have sex. Id have to give him a few hours and try again. Sometimes he would want to watch it with me to get it going. And sometimes he just watches it. Doesn't always even wank while watching it.
It's just a guy thing. They have different hormones, different cravings. As long as he still comes home to you at the end of the night, he's not creeping around, and he doesn't try to pressure you, I would say let it ride.
It doesn't bother me, I actually think it odd that my bf doesn't watch it. But he has magazines instead. He says he gets nothing from porn because its so fake, but with the magazines he can fantasize. I found his mags one day, he still hides them under his matress like a teenager & I can understand why now, they are all of very exotic looking women from all over the world. I look like the girl next door, I can't give him that. & I know he pulls them out when I'm at work, cause I work 12 hour shifts, & there's no way I'm going to be in the mood when I get home. All that matters to me is that he's at home & happy with me. People can think & fantasize abt what they want, but in reality all he wants is me, that's what matters I think.
My husband used to watch before we even started dating but stopped. To get that fix, we've created our own porn stash, so he'll watch that when he gets an itch. Then he's not watching other women. That could be a solution.
My fiance has been telling me he's gonna buy a porn since I've been feeling sick at night and stuff. I don't think he'll actually do it... once a week is not going to kill him lol.
Yeah, i found porn on my ex fiance's computer and i was upset. I feel like he would compare me to them. I blocked the websites whenever i'd see a new one. He never knew i did it. But it brought us closer together sexually and emotionally.
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Some days he would come home and be so burnt out from being around porn all day he wouldn't want to have sex. Id have to give him a few hours and try again. Sometimes he would want to watch it with me to get it going. And sometimes he just watches it. Doesn't always even wank while watching it.
It's just a guy thing. They have different hormones, different cravings. As long as he still comes home to you at the end of the night, he's not creeping around, and he doesn't try to pressure you, I would say let it ride.