BD vent. i just dont know how to get it threw his thick skull!
I am so sick of my DH/BD right now, I don't even know right now. Part of me wants to cry and part of me wants to scream at him.
I feel like I do everything myself!!! Yes I know he works all day and I'm at home with our two n a half week old son. But its not as easy as he thinks! Now don't get me wrong I love my son more then life itself and I wouldn't change a thing. But there are things that I'm not getting done because our son has been fussy the last few days and won't let me put him down without screaming bloody murder. He is either in my arms or my lap ALL DAY!
So yeah when hubbys gets home I expect some help. Like o I don't know feeding the damn dogs or dishes would be nice. O yeah and instead of taking out what trash is only in the kitchen trash can, you could get the bathroom trash as well, and put these lil things called trash bags back in them once your finished. I swear I spent almost 20 min. Gathering trash from around the (inside) house that he had just tossed here or there cuz he didn't feel like getting up and taking it to the trash can and then didn't bother gathering it up when I asked him four times to take out the trash. And don't even get me started on his dirty dishes.
And the dogs, well he decided he was mad at one of the five, so he just wasn't gonna feed any of them. Really!!!! K so the next time im mad at you, that gives me the right to just say o to bad you don't eat tonight.... So I got to deal with feeding not only our son (which he bitched about me BF cuz he wouldn't get to feed him) but our dogs as well cuz you were mad and wanted to play angry birds on your stupid phone. And I twisted my ankle and got a gash on my leg when I fed them, didn't help my mood any.... I just don't get it. Unless its something he thinks will be fun like bathing our son he doesn't wanna deal with it. Is rather pull my own teeth then even try to get him to change a diaper. But if its something that may be fun then he acts as if he doesn't even want me around and has made some very rude hurtful comments in reference to not needing me.
Part of me is ready to pack his shut and change the locks while he's at work. I'm just so done!!!
I feel like I do everything myself!!! Yes I know he works all day and I'm at home with our two n a half week old son. But its not as easy as he thinks! Now don't get me wrong I love my son more then life itself and I wouldn't change a thing. But there are things that I'm not getting done because our son has been fussy the last few days and won't let me put him down without screaming bloody murder. He is either in my arms or my lap ALL DAY!
So yeah when hubbys gets home I expect some help. Like o I don't know feeding the damn dogs or dishes would be nice. O yeah and instead of taking out what trash is only in the kitchen trash can, you could get the bathroom trash as well, and put these lil things called trash bags back in them once your finished. I swear I spent almost 20 min. Gathering trash from around the (inside) house that he had just tossed here or there cuz he didn't feel like getting up and taking it to the trash can and then didn't bother gathering it up when I asked him four times to take out the trash. And don't even get me started on his dirty dishes.
And the dogs, well he decided he was mad at one of the five, so he just wasn't gonna feed any of them. Really!!!! K so the next time im mad at you, that gives me the right to just say o to bad you don't eat tonight.... So I got to deal with feeding not only our son (which he bitched about me BF cuz he wouldn't get to feed him) but our dogs as well cuz you were mad and wanted to play angry birds on your stupid phone. And I twisted my ankle and got a gash on my leg when I fed them, didn't help my mood any.... I just don't get it. Unless its something he thinks will be fun like bathing our son he doesn't wanna deal with it. Is rather pull my own teeth then even try to get him to change a diaper. But if its something that may be fun then he acts as if he doesn't even want me around and has made some very rude hurtful comments in reference to not needing me.
Part of me is ready to pack his shut and change the locks while he's at work. I'm just so done!!!
Comments
he needs a good smack upside the head..
i'd come help u if u was close