he doesnt love me :(

ashesashes
edited February 2011 in Pregnancy and fathers
Since I found out we've been growing more and more apart. When I told him I wanted a hyphenated last name (we arent married) and that my mom was going to let me (and him but he refuses) stay here free of rent until I get a stable job he said I broke his heart and that he was over me.

We used to spend every day together now I barely see him. He never comes over to my house to even so much as talk to me. He's always out doing something else or picking up extra shifts at work so he can move out on his own. And the more we don't talk the more awkward he gets about it making me feel worse. He came over tonight and didn't even kiss or hold me and just fell asleep watching tv. Then woke up and just left. He makes plans with me then backs out last minute to do something else.

Sorry I just had to vent its Saturday night and all my friends, even my parents, are out having a good night and I'm sitting home alone watching degrassi thinking about how unfair it is that I don't have any excitement or love in my life anymore. I can't stop crying and sometimes just wish this never even happened

Comments

  • coolbabybeanscoolbabybeans
    There is someone out there who will appreciate you, and love you no matter what. Looks like you have a wonderful thing to look forward to. This guy sounds like a jerk and you deserve to be in love with someone who is just as in love with you. Things will look up. Moms are great for reassurance so lean on her. Hugs and best wished.
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  • MSCMSC
    edited February 2011
    Life is a learning lesson. We are given choices and decisions to make and based upon your choice/decision a path is created in that direction. This isn't the first nor will it ever be the last time a "male" will disappoint you. Men don't understand a woman's expectations. But we "expect" them to, even the young ones who aren't quite mature enough to express their true feelings - even though it may hurt.

    On the flip side, you also have to realize that there will be many nights when others are out and about and you are at home being a responsible parent. This is your life....and although, it takes two to tango, having a baby is ultimately a woman's decision and she must accept the consequences of that choice. You're on a new path now. Embrace it. Trust me, it will all turn out okay - been there.....

    You can make your own excitement and love is always present when you love yourself. :X
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