i told him i want a devorce

mandac10

I finally told my husband I want a devorce. Sense his attempt to cheat web though nothing happened I can't trust him and don't feel th love I once had for him. I just don't get it. We were that couple. Th ones alwas smiling laughing hugging kissing holding hands playing around. We never were apart always happy. N he tried out of nowhere getting with another pregnant woman that's married but she had a huge rep of cheating on het husband. Y would h pick trash n throw our family away like this? Even now him ani are re same. Playing around lovely u would think were the perfect couple. Its just because of that one messup I can't forgive him. I can't move past it n trust him. I always think he's with het or with some other woman. I love my husband so much. He was my whole world he has made me the happiest I've ever been. Y did he have to do that to me? He threw everything away in a matter of a few text messages!

ash1la

Sorry to hear this....did you guys try counseling? It is hard to forgive and move on when the trust is gone. Good luck.

mandac10

Ya did it and still doing it. Its all me I have a one strike rule. He didn't even really cheat he tried and that's good enough for me

jenzoe1

So sorry girl.. I don't think I could move past it either.. stay strong

ExcitedForOctober

I'm sorry hun. I know how u feel with loving a person soooo much and to find out they dont feel the same. I told my bf (together for 5 years) that I was done yesterday and I am so broken hearted but I know its the best. I'm at work and I keep running to the BR to cry everytime I think of him, its soooo incredibly hard but we need to be strong.

mandac10

I think the biggest thing foe me is I never ever thought he out of all men could or would do this to me. We were and still are so perfect for each other. I've never felt such a connection twards anyone like this. It took me so long to did him. I've date so many men and soamy of them where wonderful guys but my husband was 100% perfect. I've never felt hurt like when I found out what he tried to do and its going to hurt so much moving on without him. Raising our kids without him growing old without him... I am not going to go looking for another man. After experiencing this amount of pain over him I can't do it again and also I don't think I can err low anoter man like I love him