The Father changed his number and so did his mom

Brandysfirst

I don't talk to anyone so I'm thankful for this. We werent together to long about 4 months. I met his family and his first child so I thought we were getting serious then I found out I was pregnant he was supportive about it when I told him but about month into it he was not wanting to see me much and I was letting my imagination get to me. Then the next time I saw him he was saying his ex was talking about all this false stuff cause I didn't know the girl so I confronted her and she told me they were trying to work things out and they were trying to have a baby so I was hurt hurt and told him to leave me alone. Next day I changed my number. I called him a week ago I called him and his mom disconnected. I want him in the babies life but I can't force anyone to do anything.should I just leave him be?

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Brandysfirst

I know my sister tells me to take him to court but it would be a waste of time cause I found out he was on ebt and said he was homeless. Which he has money and two nice cars. I just want him to be there cause I'm having a boy and my mom was a single parent I just didn't want my baby to have only one parent. It just sucks but is reality.

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expectingbabynumber3

I am the same place. Sometimes is best to let him go if he doesn't want to be apart of the baby bc if he is goin to be in n out of his life than y he will only hurt his son. N it will kill u.

Brandysfirst

I know only time will tell. I just need not think about it till I have him. Its just hard cause I don't want him to resent me thinking I'm the one keeping him away from his father.

expectingbabynumber3

I understand. Its hard but keep ur head up n do u n ur baby. N yes only time can tell. Good luck am here if u need to talk more

Brandysfirst

Thank you so much it means a lot to me.

Brandysfirst

Thank you so much it means a lot to me.