NO, bd is not coming to the birth, is that what u wanna hear?!
I am so tired of people trying to find out whats going on with my babys father. Just got off the phone with my grandma who was inquiring as to whether hes going to be at the babys birth. I dont talk about him to u so why ask me something like that. Clearly its something i dont want to talk about and what is it any of ur business if hes there or not.
The last time i asked him when was he getting his ticket to come for the birth, he texted me saying what do u want then called me and said ill get it when i get it and hung up on me. Honestly, since then we havent spoken in months. I asked his mom was he coming and she told me she didnt know and not to worry about things that r gonna stress me out. So with all that said i can only infer he wont be there. We had an earthquake recently and he didnt even call. Ill never understand how someone can wake up everyday and look at themselves in the mirror knowing they have a child that they purposefully have nothing to do with.
People who dont know squat about whats going on should really say nothing at all. Its like, uve already seen me for the past 8 months going thru this pregnancy alone, and whenever u bring him up i either get quiet or change the subject, so why ask me questions like that??? Esp when im in a good mood and thinking positively about my pregnancy. As if i havent already thought about this issue over and over and gotten sad over it before. If i dont bring him up then why do they feel they need to? Do they think i dont care that hes not going to be there and tbat i havent thoughtabout all this already? Ugh....
The last time i asked him when was he getting his ticket to come for the birth, he texted me saying what do u want then called me and said ill get it when i get it and hung up on me. Honestly, since then we havent spoken in months. I asked his mom was he coming and she told me she didnt know and not to worry about things that r gonna stress me out. So with all that said i can only infer he wont be there. We had an earthquake recently and he didnt even call. Ill never understand how someone can wake up everyday and look at themselves in the mirror knowing they have a child that they purposefully have nothing to do with.
People who dont know squat about whats going on should really say nothing at all. Its like, uve already seen me for the past 8 months going thru this pregnancy alone, and whenever u bring him up i either get quiet or change the subject, so why ask me questions like that??? Esp when im in a good mood and thinking positively about my pregnancy. As if i havent already thought about this issue over and over and gotten sad over it before. If i dont bring him up then why do they feel they need to? Do they think i dont care that hes not going to be there and tbat i havent thoughtabout all this already? Ugh....
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& it drives me damn nuts so I know where you are coming from...
I'm sorry that you and bd are having issues... hopefully things work out for you!
@jay_brad & @newmomma13 & @gabbyc @Nikkmb3 thanks guys for the encouraging words. At least somebody understands where I'm coming from. & yes my dad's fam is so nosey and so concerned about what the "fathers" going to do. It's like why weren't u this concerned when my dad was shitting on me for most of my life. It almost makes me want to just give them his number so they can ask him themselves since they're so concerned. But they would probably do just that just to be nosey. My mom's side doesn't say anything to me about the dad, they just talk about the baby which should be the main focus. No use in speaking of folks who aren't around.