So I know ur not supposed to do it but I had hubby check to see while he was putting in my epo and he said it was like jello up there and then when the doc checked he said wow your really soft, about 50% effaced, and a fingertip dialated so soft is how pliable for getting baby out? @mommyoftwoprincesses?
I was wondering the same thing because my doc never used the word efface she just said oh you are about a centimer dilated and 3 centimers deep which I have no clue what that meant I mean could she feel her head or something lol. But she said I am really soft to where she doesn't want me to get checked again until 40weeks I believe. All this is confusing and I have been through this before lol. But with my son I never dilated so they gave me that punk pitocin.
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